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Offline Super Dude

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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #35 on: April 28, 2012, 04:35:57 AM »
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #36 on: April 28, 2012, 04:41:20 AM »
Quote from: Gadough on April 28, 2012, 02:42:59 AM
Shove your tits in her face. That should shudderup.

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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #37 on: April 28, 2012, 05:26:48 AM »
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Quote from: Dublagent66 on April 27, 2012, 11:42:31 AM
Andy, the question should be "how to prevent a woman from bullying you in the 1st place."  If it needs to be stopped then it's gone too far already.  :hat

Quote from: lonestar on April 27, 2012, 03:56:01 PM
Tick has a good point, I know because I am very similar in nature, but tend to find myself attracted to aggressive woman.  For me, I need to find one that's aggressive in a positive way, instead of one who is aggressive out of insecurity.

Quote from: theseoafs on April 27, 2012, 09:37:51 AM
If you're uncomfortable with the way women are treating you, say so. You're a man. You can say what you want.

If they still don't honor your requests, there's no reason to spend time with these people.

Prayer, Counsel in your faith community, Matthew 6:33, Proverbs, Don't hold on to offenses, Pray for them.
Thank you for that. I'm absolutely and defnitively doing these things or will work on them harder particularly not holding onto offences (which I understand to mean mentally releasing rather than not taking action, setting boundaries etc).
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #38 on: April 28, 2012, 07:05:22 AM »
Here you go, Andy. Some words of wisdom.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEmL8ITrg38
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #39 on: April 28, 2012, 08:54:03 AM »
Quote from: AcidLameLTE on April 27, 2012, 08:03:46 PM
Maybe this thread will help:

https://www.dreamtheaterforums.org/boards/index.php?topic=32010.0

My favorite response  :hefdaddy  :hefdaddy  :hefdaddy

Also, about the AndyDT subforum... YES! :drool:
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #40 on: April 28, 2012, 11:39:57 AM »
I'm not religious, but tell her to knock it off. If she's making you feel bad, just say so. But she's not going to listen to you if you insult, hurt, or yell at her. "Hell hath seen no fury like a woman scorned" and it's true.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #41 on: April 28, 2012, 01:16:03 PM »
How do you stop a woman from bullying you?

    Well, here's a tip,

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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #42 on: April 28, 2012, 01:19:08 PM »
How do you stop a girl from bullying you.  Conk her on the head.


Serious answer,  Andy,  it seems to me that you are passive in relationships, so the are trying two things,

1. Get a rise out of you
2.  Trying to motivate you

But if these girls are not right for you,   (and that's true for many people looking for relationships)  Opt out.  Tell them in the kindest way that you are not interested.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #43 on: April 28, 2012, 06:36:53 PM »
Ironically, I just found this picture of Andy online...

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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #44 on: April 28, 2012, 08:30:56 PM »
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #45 on: April 28, 2012, 09:36:04 PM »
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #46 on: April 28, 2012, 09:46:13 PM »
Best thread?

best thread.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #47 on: April 29, 2012, 03:08:34 AM »
Quote from: senecadawg2 on April 28, 2012, 06:36:53 PM
Ironically, I just found this picture of Andy online...


My god he's hot.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #48 on: April 29, 2012, 04:18:20 AM »
Quote from: AndyDT on April 27, 2012, 09:18:16 AM
For whatever reason some, and only some, women seem to think I'm a pushover or maybe they're bullies anyway. It gets to the point that they don't respect your "no" and use criticism or manipulation to get around it or bring you down. My answer is to tighten up my standards and values even more, to try to put their behaviour into view. I also was reading 2 Corinthians where Paul says "when I'm weak then I am strong" and talks about "boasting in my weakness". In other words, total honesty and congruence, reducing himself to zero to find truth (as Gandhi said 2000 years later).

Any comments from Christians or serious advice from anybody else?

It's great you always come to us for advice Andy.  Here's my contribution to your delimma and what you should do;

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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #49 on: April 29, 2012, 11:43:26 AM »
It's humorous to me how unhelpful this thread became as soon as it was switched to GD.

Imagine what Andy's other threads would look like had they been switched as well.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #50 on: April 29, 2012, 11:49:55 AM »
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #51 on: April 29, 2012, 01:22:31 PM »
Quote from: theseoafs on April 29, 2012, 11:43:26 AM
It's humorous to me how unhelpful this thread became as soon as it was switched to GD.

Imagine what Andy's other threads would look like had they been switched as well.

The location isn't the key, it's just that more people are willing to chime in outside of P/R, which is probably the big reason Andy posts non P/R topics in P/R anyway, it's like keeping it in the family.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #52 on: April 29, 2012, 05:42:10 PM »
Quote from: Silver Tears on April 29, 2012, 03:08:34 AM
Quote from: senecadawg2 on April 28, 2012, 06:36:53 PM
Ironically, I just found this picture of Andy online...


My god he's hot.

Aye. I feel perfectly secure in my sexual orientation of being straight, yet still find myself oddly attracted to him. Yet unfortunately, he has no self-esteem and is constantly being bullied by women.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #53 on: April 29, 2012, 06:19:47 PM »
Seriously, who is that guy?
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #55 on: April 29, 2012, 07:13:16 PM »
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #56 on: April 29, 2012, 07:22:28 PM »
Never got into that show.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #57 on: April 30, 2012, 12:05:52 PM »
Sawyer from Lost, oh gawd  :lol my grandmother has a SERIOUS crush on him, to the point where she stuck pictures of him all over her work place and set him as her desktop background on her PC. She has a picture of him in a picture frame, like he's her son or something, and even has an action figure of him.  :lol Never have found him very attractive though.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #58 on: May 01, 2012, 03:09:02 AM »
Ahahaha that sounds like a pretty big crush  :lol Yeah he's not my usual type but I most definitely wouldn't say no.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #59 on: May 01, 2012, 03:14:05 AM »
Quote from: True Death of Life on April 29, 2012, 06:40:59 PM
Quote from: wolfking on April 29, 2012, 06:19:47 PM
Seriously, who is that guy?

 :corn
He played Sawyer in Lost. He was also in Mission Impossible: Ghost Protocol.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #60 on: May 01, 2012, 07:53:07 AM »
Quote from: Silver Tears on May 01, 2012, 03:09:02 AM
Ahahaha that sounds like a pretty big crush  :lol Yeah he's not my usual type but I most definitely wouldn't say no.

You can say no? :biggrin:
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #61 on: May 01, 2012, 09:59:42 AM »
Well not to you :eyebrows:
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #62 on: May 02, 2012, 03:30:11 PM »
Not many can.  :hat
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #63 on: May 02, 2012, 05:25:25 PM »
To quote a DT reference.,

Chunk and Balls.  That's my answer.
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Re: How do you stop a woman from bullying you?
« Reply #64 on: May 02, 2012, 05:39:31 PM »
Sawyer.
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