the bold part is where you lose me, do you have any evidence to back this up?
Relativism is philosophical position which stipulates that all points of view are equally valid, and that all truth is relative to the individual.
Likewise, moral relativism is a philosophy that asserts there is no global, absolute moral law that applies to all people, for all time, and in all places; all morals are relative to the social group within which they are constructed.
Relativism states that there is no absolute truth or that truth is merely relative to the individual. Yet relativism is self-refuting; If all truth is relative, then the statement "All truth is relative" would be absolutely true. If it is absolutely true, then not all things are relative and the statement that "All truth is relative" is false.
Likewise, the statement "There are no absolute truths" is an absolute statement which is supposed to be true. Therefore, it is an absolute truth and "There are no absolute truths" is false. If there are no absolute truths, then you cannot believe anything absolutely at all, including that there are no absolute truths. Therefore, nothing could be really true for you - including relativism.
If what is true for me is that relativism is false, then is it true that relativism is false?
1. If you say no, then what is true for me is not true and relativism is false.
2. If you say yes, then relativism is false.
Let the moral relativist be lied to, be the victim of false advertising, or of a crime and he instantly becomes a moral absolutist. A person’s reaction to what he considers unfair ethical treatment always betrays his true feelings on the matter of relative vs. objective moral laws....when things go wrong for him.
The problem for the moral relativist is they have no good answer to the two-part question: Is there anything wrong with an action (say murder) and if so why? Appealing to the relative whims of society or personal preferences doesn't provide satisfying answers. A better response to the question necessitates that an individual have (1) an unchanging standard he can turn to, and (2) an absolute authority by which proper moral obligation and be defended. Without these, morals/ethics simply becomes emotionally based preferences. Rape, for example, can never be deemed wrong; the strongest statement that can be made about rape is “I don’t like it.”
Imagine the following, Woody-Allen-esque scenario as a thief enters a jewelry store in the day to scope out the alarm system, cameras, etc. Being this a Woody-Allen-esque scenario, the thief unexpectedly gets into a philosophical conversation with the owner:
Owner: "So,everything is relative. That is why I believe that all morals are not absolute, and that right and wrong is up to the individual to determine within the confines of society. But there is no absolute right and wrong."
Thief: "That is a very interesting perspective. I was brought up believing there was a God, and that there was right and wrong. But I abandoned all of that and I agree with you that there is no absolute right and wrong, and that we are free to do what we want."
The thief leaves the store, returns that night, and breaks in. He disables all the alarms and locks and is in the process of robbing the store. Then the owner of the store enters through a side door. The thief pulls out a gun. The owner cannot see the man's face because he is wearing a mask.
Owner: "Don't shoot me! Please take whatever you want and leave me alone."
Thief: "That is exactly what I plan to do."
Owner: "Wait a minute. I know you. You are the man that was in the store earlier today. I recognize your voice."
Thief: "That's not good. Because now you also know what I look like, and since I do not want to go to jail I am forced to kill you."
Owner: "You cannot do that!"
Thief: "Why not?"
Owner: "Because it is not right!"
Thief: "But didn't you not tell me today that there is no right and wrong?"
Owner: "Yes, but I have a family, children that need me, and a wife."
Thief: "So? I am sure that you are insured and that they will get a lot of money. But since there is no right and wrong, it makes no difference whether or not I kill you. And if I let you live you will turn me in and I will go to prison. Sorry, but that will not do."
Owner: "But it is a crime against society to kill me. It is wrong because society says so."
Thief: "As you can see, I don't recognize society's claim to impose morals on me. It's all relative. Remember?"
Owner: "Please do not shoot me. I beg you. I promise not to tell anyone what you look like. I swear it!"
Thief: "I do not believe you and I cannot take that chance."
Owner: "But it is true! I swear I'll tell no one."
Thief: "Sorry, but it cannot be true because there is no absolute truth, no right and wrong, no error, remember? If I let you live and then I leave, you will break your so-called promise because your morals and promises are relative. There is no way I can trust you. Our conversation this morning convinced me of that."
Owner: "But it is wrong to kill me. It isn't right!"
Thief: "It is neither right or wrong for me to kill you. Since truth is relative to the individual, if I kill you, that is my truth. And, it is obviously true that if I let you live I will go to prison. Sorry, but you have killed yourself."
*The thief shoots the owner and kills him*
is there really any evidence that people who believe in objective morality make different moral decisions than people who do not believe in objective morality?
That's not the point. I'm not interested in the social impact of a worldview as much as its validity. This thread isn't meant to argue "theists are more moral people".
The issue is not: Which persons act the most morally?
The issue is not: Does Christian hypocrisy towards morality invalidate it?
The issue is not: Must we believe in God in order to live moral lives?
The issue is not: Can we recognize moral duties without believing in God?
The issue is not: Can we formulate a system of ethics without referring to God?
and if you can't see a difference in the way people act with or without believing in objective morality is knowing it really that important? of is it a (fun) philosophical exercise?
How one acts in a given worldview and its validity are two separate things. For example, for a moral relativist, there would be no objective reason why him killing someone would be wrong, but that doesn't mean that he will simply go around killing people because it is not wrong. Again, this is missing the point.
Sorry for the essay.