Yeah, vacations are one of those things you can't really mess with. There are basically two types: vacations for personal enrichment, and vacations for sheer relaxation. For example: I know rumby took off to travel the world a year or so ago, but I do wonder how relaxing that’d be for most people? It sounds like an awesome, once-in-a-lifetime experience, but even taking off to go and try and genuinely experience ONE location can be more exhausting than relaxing.
Some people care about seeing natural wonders and the like, while others just want a few weeks of luxury living. When I was a little, my family took me to the Grand Canyon, Mesa Verde, Yellowstone, and all those great places. Eventually, though, we started going on cruises. I've been on like three or four, total. It's a fun time. It's a week of first-class food, drink, relaxation, and entertainment. It IS like being in a luxury resort, just at sea with some decent excursions when you're at shore. It can also be pretty economical, considering what you might spend to actually fly yourself out to a luxury resort.
Best cruise I went on was definitely Alaska. We stopped in British Columbia for a day, as well as a port in Alaska where the ship was docked 2-3 days and you were free to just kinda get out and explore. It was good fun. Honestly, I did spend a lot of the trip just sitting out on the deck listening to music while watching the sun go down over glaciers, but I also went on all the excursions, used the first-class gym each morning, went to the comedy or dance clubs every night, logged at least two hours per day reading per day in the library, and went to the dress-up dinner every evening. I also met a cute girl on board, who was my age and into me. I come from a working class family and I definitely felt "out classed" by a lot of the rich dudes and dudettes on the boat, but I guess getting to live like that for a few weeks is just as valid a vacation as going to camp out in a national park. My brother, who kinda just stayed in the room watching TV and napping, didn’t enjoy the cruise nearly as much as I did, and wound up staying home the next time.
But, anyway, my favorite vacations were the ones that were both enriching and relaxing. One year my family flew out west and camped for a few days around the Grand Canyon, Mesa Verde, and then hooked into Vegas for like three days of luxury living before flying home. I think that balance is important. With cruise ships, the excursions give the whole thing a 75/25 ratio of relaxing/enriching, which isn’t ideal, but is still decent.