Did anyone catch the Matthew Perry interview with Diane Sawyer? Holy shit, I guess I wasn't surprised that he had an addiction issue but it sounds like he did a damn good job covering it up and then literally nearly died from blowing a hole in his colon. 50+ Vicodin a day? I mean, I only need to look at a codeine pill and can't shit for a week. (Sorry TMI for a girl, lol)
I guess I'm just a dick.
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I have a question for those whom alcohol is the primary drug of choice - does it ever irk you how much alcohol is celebrated in society? I mean, there is an entire swath of people who will gladly talk your ear off about toxins in our food...avoid seed oils! sugar is the devil! artificial colors will rot your brain!....and yet I'd wager 80% of these people have no problem throwing back a glass of wine or pint of beer. Alcohol being a LITERAL toxin! And it isn't just that. Holidays? Drink Get together with friends or family? Drink Tough day at work? Drink Need courage for a date? Drink. It is just so normalized, and I guess you could make the same argument for caffeine but caffeine doesn't kill hundreds of thousands each year.
Someone I follow for training advice is in recovery and she posts a lot about the normalization of alcohol consumption. I guess I never really thought about it before because I grew up with it all around me. Literally every member of my family drank except for 1 (my mom). And I don't think I'm outside of the norm here.
I'll give my two cents...I wouldn't say it irks me...but I do believe it doesn't help the rampant abuse of alcohol in our society one bit. We are taught from a very young age that alcohol is literally a solution to so many of life's problems and woes, not to mention any semblance of celebration has booze all over it. And that's just the millennia of the alcohol culture in action, add to that in the last hundred years the advent of marketing, having it plastered in every direction we turn, to choose a sober life is definitely choosing to be in the minority.
For me personally, in early recovery it was very tough, especially being in the industry I'm in. I get off at 11, nothing is open except bars, I literally had zero options for a social life until I developed a new culture of friends in recovery. Honestly, thank god for DTF, this was my go to place after work in those early days, chatting with Nem on the other side of the world saved my ass when I was struggling so hard just to get through that one day at a time. Now, 11 years into this gig, I have a very solid program, and a huge recovery family to be there for me in my daily life, so the omnipresence of the booze culture doesn't effect me...I think of it as an allergy...drinking just isn't an option for me, and I don't have regrets or hangups about it. I'm sick, I suffer from the disease of alcoholism, and the cure for me is to not drink, help other alcoholics, and keep a strong spiritual program at hand. Again, this is just my experience with it.