I actually alluded to that earlier in the thread, specifically relating to Erin Andrews. I can certainly understand why she doesn't want video of her prancing around naked all over the internet, and I'd give the same deference to victims of abuse. That said, does anybody really think that being in possession of the Erin Andrews videos should be a felony? Of course not.
If being in possession of it shouldn't be,
intentionally distributing it should be. I stand by that. There is also something to be said for the severity of the violation here--a video of Erin Andrews prancing around naked is arguably not as much of a violation as a video of a woman or child (or man, though we don't hear about this as much) being raped, for the same reason that passively videotaping a person walking down the street isn't a violation at all.
There may be a certain degree of subjectivity, a certain need for context, but I don't think it's that hard to explain why distribution of child pornography should be illegal based on the premise of a victim's right to their own bodily sovereignty.
That said, I think arguments about "killing the market" and whatnot are absurd. Anything can stimulate the market for anything else--if you're going to prosecute a crime, it has to be based on some harm. I suppose we differ in our definitions of harm, or if we believe a videotape can be actual harm.