Teenagers and their sexual openness.

[73109]

"LOL. Let's have sex and smoke weed. It makes us cool."

to be fair,


doing both of those things is better than not doing both of those things

Yes, but doing it to keep an image of "I'm a teen and I'm cool" pisses me off.

If you want to get high to get high, cool.
If you want to get your rocks off because it feels good, cool.
If you want to get high and get your rocks off because it adds to your "image," I hate you with a passion.

[MasterShakezula]

If you want to get high to get high, cool.
If you want to get your rocks off because it feels good, cool.
If you want to get high and get your rocks off because it adds to your "image," I hate you with a passion.

Agreed.

[El Barto]

The amusing thing is that this conversation has happened non-stop since the 1800s.  In 1907 Annette Kellerman was arrested for wearing a swimsuit that exposed her legs from the knees down.  Women in the 20's actually drank, smoked, danced and screwed for fun.   In the 30's,  Hedy Lamarr's hot ass caused Hollywood to freak out and enact the Haye's code to ban nudity in movies for over 30 years.  It just goes on and on.

Affordable printing exposed even common folk to cultures outside of their own.  Trains and reliable ocean passage actually allowed them to see it first hand.  Radio and then television brought those cultures right into people's homes.  The internet is now providing that same connection much quick and much more abundantly.  And the amazing thing is that technology is increasing at a faster and faster rate.  We could still be in the infancy of the information age.  Can anybody possibly imagine what kids in 2040 will be doing to express themselves and shock their parents who grew up in the era of sending nekkid pictures to each other via cellphones?

Gotta be honest here.  I can't wait to find out.  

[Ultimetalhead]

"LOL. Let's have sex and smoke weed. It makes us cool."

to be fair,


doing both of those things is better than not doing both of those things

I'm happy to be drug-free, but I sure could go for sum lovin. 
Preferably with a girl. 
Like, the kind with breasts. 
But only with protection. 

Be prepared for a massive disappointment.

[MasterShakezula]

"LOL. Let's have sex and smoke weed. It makes us cool."

to be fair,


doing both of those things is better than not doing both of those things

I'm happy to be drug-free, but I sure could go for sum lovin. 
Preferably with a girl. 
Like, the kind with breasts. 
But only with protection. 

Be prepared for a massive disappointment.

Wait, why would that be the case?

[Ultimetalhead]

Sex with protection is dramatically less fun than sex without it.

[Gorille85]

Sex with protection is dramatically less fun than sex without it.

This!!

[MasterShakezula]

Sex with protection is dramatically less fun than sex without it.

Then, is there a way to, um, have breakfast with a girl without protection without the possibility of knocking her up?

[73109]

Birth controll pill...

Anyway, I'd be happy to endure "less fun" as opposed to a little me running around.

[MasterShakezula]

Birth controll pill...

Anyway, I'd be happy to endure "less fun" as opposed to a little me running around.

Another nice thing about protection is that it can make sure that it doesn't hurt when you pee afterwards.  Though I enjoy taking pink lemonade in, I can't imagine wanting to put it out. 

[Gorille85]

wat

[Ultimetalhead]

Birth controll pill...

Anyway, I'd be happy to endure "less fun" as opposed to a little me running around.

Since I never intend on having children, I'm definitely incredibly scared of such a situation. I'll definitely sacrifice less fun (or just avoid it all together, there's nothing wrong with her mouth anyway) to avoid it.

[MasterShakezula]

wat

STDs.  I'm happy to not to have any.  Intend to continue not to have any. 

[Orbert]

Sex with a condom on is not as fun as sex without a condom, but it's not horrible by any means.  It still feels pretty damned good, and let's face it, if you're a teenager, you're horny as fuck anyway, so it's gonna feel plenty good.  I'd say the tradeoff is worth not having to worry about getting her pregnant or getting AIDS or some other disease.

[ReaperKK]

Sex with protection is dramatically less fun than sex without it.

This!!

While I agree with you ecstasy condoms are really good, probably the best you can get.

[Bonham]

"LOL. Let's have sex and smoke weed. It makes us cool."

to be fair,


doing both of those things is better than not doing both of those things

What's the rationale behind this?

[Global Laziness]

Sex with protection is dramatically less fun than sex without it.

Another nice thing about protection is that it can make sure that it doesn't hurt when you pee afterwards.  Though I enjoy taking pink lemonade in, I can't imagine wanting to put it out. 

Damn you young teenagers and your sexual openness!

Sex with a condom on is not as fun as sex without a condom, but it's not horrible by any means.  It still feels pretty damned good, and let's face it, if you're a teenager, you're horny as fuck anyway, so it's gonna feel plenty good.  I'd say the tradeoff is worth not having to worry about getting her pregnant or getting AIDS or some other disease.

[SystematicThought]

Definately an interesting band you have there OP. My band is a group of rejects 

I go to an intensely religious Lutheran High School, by that I mean that the sexual frustration can be off the charts there. I only hear a few sex stories going on though. I guess it's actually pretty tame, compared to others. Although because it's religious, none of the girls are really open to relationships or at least in my experience

[MasterShakezula]

Another nice thing about protection is that it can make sure that it doesn't hurt when you pee afterwards.  Though I enjoy taking pink lemonade in, I can't imagine wanting to put it out. 

Damn you young teenagers and your sexual openness!

Woah, I thought my post was pretty obvious, as in, I'd want to wear protection if I got laid for disease-prevention.  The pink lemonade part was a reference to peeing blood, which happens when a person has an STD, I think.  Also, I enjoy actual pink lemonade, the kind made of lemon and grape juice.

[theliloutkast]

The first big problem with the OP is that you're using the band as your group of observation. I wasn't in band, but my cousin and girlfriend were. If there is anything I learned in High School it was that their band friends were more perverted and sexual open than anyone else I knew in High School.

Anywho, I graduated in 2010 and I honestly found that people liked sex (as they should) and would talk about it to some extent with people they were close to. I never, however, experienced public foreplay.

[Global Laziness]

Another nice thing about protection is that it can make sure that it doesn't hurt when you pee afterwards.  Though I enjoy taking pink lemonade in, I can't imagine wanting to put it out. 

Damn you young teenagers and your sexual openness!

Woah, I thought my post was pretty obvious, as in, I'd want to wear protection if I got laid for disease-prevention.  The pink lemonade part was a reference to peeing blood, which happens when a person has an STD, I think.  Also, I enjoy actual pink lemonade, the kind made of lemon and grape juice.

It was only kidding buddy, don't worry about it.

[bss4life15]

I go to a school of 200 of the horniest people ever.  I personally know almost every seventh grader has had sex multiple times.  And there are some prostitots that are sluttier than most the sluttiest grown adults i know.  The rest of the school isn't much better.  And most constantly talk about it and tell everyone about their sexual experiences. 
The sad thing to me is most of the girls are proud of the fact that they are whores.  They think it makes them cool.  It's why i don't date the girls at my school.

[jsem]

-Last school year, I was in the drumline; most of my peers in that team were non-virgins.  There were even cases of some of them doing the dew with members of the colorguard on the bus home from competitions.  They also really liked to show eachother their penises, and when no adults were looking, they'd often break into the band room to have sex with their girlfriends or strip naked and dance around.

This suggests to me that there is something terribly wrong with your peers in your team.


To the actual OP: I'm born 94, and yeah most of the people I hang with are like me - introverted and belonging in the LHC. But other than my circle, I see a lot of openness these days - but I can't really compare to different times, but I'm guessing people are more open about it today - it certainly seems that way to me. A lot of people take it extremes, and into realms of whoredom (including males). That ticks me off, and I'd certainly take what I have now and wait a little longer for people to mature a bit. In hindsight that's probably what a lot of others will say too, that they should've been more careful and all that jazz in their teens... but whatever.

[Dark Castle]

'93 here
I can't say the school I went to was that bad, of course their were the people open with it and the people who were bloated with sex, but for the most part my school was fairly alright.  Although when I'm on facebook I notice friends from previous towns I've lived in talking about the crazy booze laden sex weekends and I just chuckle to myself.  I've never been a very social person although I'm changing that, but I would agree that people are a lot more open with their sex lives these days.
That being said I hope Dakota State isn't laden with whores and stuff.
Also I already have a wonderful girlfriend so I just look at todays society with interest.