I don't think it's a bad thing, necessarily. But, I do feel like some kids are trying to grow up too fast, and they're doing it the wrong way. It seems now that a lot of kids are missing out on their last years of being a kid, meanwhile they are trying so hard to be an adult, and become more sexually open is the way they think it's done. I just feel bad for them; you only get to be a kid once, and they've basically lost it.
That's an interesting take, because in many ways I see it as the exact opposite. It seems to me like adults are largely responsible for taking the fun out of being a kid. 13 freaking years of getting up at 7:30 in the morning and spending all day at school. You're expected to bust your ass so you can get into a good college, immediately get a good job and be a responsible adult. None of this spend a year roaming around Europe garbage. Don't drink. Don't smoke. Do your homework. Don't screw your girlfriend. Hell, they've even turned sports into work now. I'm not disagreeing with what you're saying at all, they are rushing to grow up as fast as they can, and in some ways that's a shame, but we're not exactly making being a kid much fun anymore.
Yeah, that's a good point.
However, I think those are all things that can be attributed to the parents, rather than the kids. If the parents are forcing the kid to act responsible, that's on them.
I mean, yeah, I had to get up and go to school and do my homework and shit. But, my parents never busted my ass about getting straight As or acting like an adult. They wanted me to make my own choices, and part of that for me was choosing to have fun, so they me be a kid. I don't think telling kids don't smoke, or drink, or have sex at an early age is confining them to a "serious kid life"; every kid has to follow rules. Part of having rules is breaking them, if you're a kid.
Plus, I think parents 40 years ago were way tougher than now. Parents are a lot more lax about certain things now. These days, the tough stuff for kids is more contemporary. It's about parents trying too hard to have their kids grow up because it's "what's best for them". It's not this 1960's "get my slippers, child" sort of lifestyle, where it was more about respecting your elders. Nowadays, the parents are trying to even out the playing field by trying to be friends with their children. The parents think they are looking out for their kids this way, but it's almost too much. Kids can't make mistakes anymore, because the parents are too scared for their kids now.
Actually, I'm getting into a whole other topic here.
But, I agree. However, I think it's still a mixture of the parent's authority, and also the kids wanting to grow up quicker.