Are there gay dudes who do as much passive-aggressive stuff in relationships as some women tend to do? Assuming you have experience with both (I think you said you did earlier in the thread, but I could be misremembering).
-J
A lot of passive-agressive bullshit, yeah. But it depends on the kind of guy. It's like, some gays are like real men inside, they think like men, etc... Some other are really like women tho, like they have a woman brain in a man's body. In my experience, the more flamboyant ones tend to be like that (overall, I'm not saying
everyone is like that). A lot are in between, like a mix of both.
Is it annoying to have to "come out" to people? I'm straight but didn't need to make an announcement about it, so it seems to me like making a big production about it would be strange. Or do you just simply make a casual comment about having a boyfriend or something and hope people catch on?
If people ask directly, I won't lie. If we happen to talk about it and I feel I'm with open minded people, I will probably let you know. But I'm not going "HEY I HAVE SOMETHING VERY IMPORTANT TO TELL YOU" with everyone I meet. Nobody tells me "hey look I'm straight" so I'm not sure why I'd need to
announce it to everybody.