I've only kind of skimmed this thread but here are some thoughts:
- I live in the bible belt and I don't think anyone would care that much if I told them I was an atheist. I'm not saying I am, just a hypothetical. I think there would be a lot of girls who would eliminate me from marriage contention, but they would also do so if I told them I was a muslim, jew, etc.
- Even though I am not an atheist, I live pretty much the same as one: I'm not religious, I don't go to church, I never pray or even think about God. It's basically like God doesn't exist to me, even though I do believe in God. I hope that makes sense.
Anyway... My main point though is that I think I'm a very moral person. I have good relationships with everyone I meet, I have no desire to be with any other girl than with my girlfriend and if even Brooklyn Decker hit on me I'd tell her to screw off, I have had many friends tell me I am like their brother and they trust me with their lives, I try to be kind to people and help those less fortunate than I... I have a lot of flaws as a person but I think I'm a good dude. I've met lots of religious people who make me look like Mother Teresa and lots of religious people who make me look like Hitler (my girlfriend being one of them).
I just think that if someone were to call me amoral because I'm not religious... It just doesn't sit will with me. Maybe by some technical definition I am, but I look around me and 99% of people I meet - religious or not - are totally unreasonable and sneaky and mean, and I try really hard not to be those things and I think I succeed a lot of the time, and so for someone to say I'm amoral because I'm not religious...
It just doesn't sit will with me.