People in Libya are being slaughtered by their own government, New Zealanders are recovering from a natural disaster, and this. Two of these things are important and news-worthy, the third is making martyrs of foolish people. Just like the girl who tried to sail around the world, I can't feel too bad for people who willingly and knowingly put themselves at exceptional risk.
As for people expecting God to step in and save them...he didn't step in and save over 1,000 people on 9/11, what makes you think you're so special? (not directed at any DTF'ers, more at the deceased)