Benjamin Franlkin said rarely commit venery except for health or reproduction.
Why should I care what Benjamin Franklin has to say on the subject?
What about the signal you send out by buying condoms publicly?
Given the wedding ring on my finger, I'm probably sending one of two signals: (1) I enjoy sex with my wife, and given that I'm buying the jumbo box, I enjoy it often and I think I may go for it after I cook up these lamb chops and greens, which incidentally I would prefer bagged
separately if you please, madam; or (2) I'm cheating on my wife. If the supermarket clerk happens to think the latter, that's their problem. If the former, they would be correct and I have no problem with that.
That's a factor drilled home by christianity.
I have no idea what you mean by that.
I never saw my parents talk or even suggest sex let alone give any indication they practised it.
Well, as far as the intimate details, they
shouldn't have shared it with you because it is not your business. There
is such a thing as discretion, and it is, IMO, not appropriate to share the details of your sex life with anyone unless there is a specific reason to. And there would never be a good reason to do so with your children.
As far as them not talking with you about it in general, that's just odd. Again, I'm not suggesting that it would be appropriate to share the details. But I think it would be unealthy for them, as your parents, they
should assume the role of your primary teachers and role models, and
should teach you about sex and, without sharing the specific details of their sex lives, let you know that it is part of a healthy marriage relationship. I hope to be able to talk openly with my children when they are of an appropriate age so that they will trust me enough to talk to me when they have questions/issues. I think that's part of a healthy relationship. It doesn't mean our sex life is out in the open for discussion among the family. It is to be kept private and discreet. But we also aren't going to pretend like it doesn't exist either. But as far as the specific issue of condoms and the like, I also wouldn't go shopping for them with the kids present either because I just don't think that's appropriate.