I have absolutely no idea what's going on in this thread as I haven't clicked the link for it before now and have no intention of reading through it.
I am happily married to the woman of my dreams, with whom I have been in love almost since the day we met. We dated through the last years of high school and college and I proposed right after I got my first real job. We were married in June of 08 and haven't been happier. Even when times get tough or turbulent, the end result is that we love each other and work through the fuckups and turmoil. Without her I'd be lost and I let her know this every day.
So yeah, not lonely.