I dated a girl for about a year and we were extremely close, almost as if we were one. Here thoughts were mine, and mine hers. I felt I met my soul mate, the person who knows every single thing about me and I loved her like nothing else. I stopped watching porn even. When I thought about sex, it was always her, always! My fantasies were always with her. It was pathetic almost....
I would call her and just leave the phone there, her breathing alone soothed me. She confided that she knew I was the one she will spend her life with.
Fast forward to earlier last year. She and I had a fight because she wanted to take the next step, me proposing. But we were only together for a year, I thought it was a bit reckless. She then gave me the "if you truly love me you would" which was complete BS. The fight escalated (our only real big fight ever, mind you). She had to leave on a trip to Vegas for a week. So I was home thinking about it, and I decided it was the right thing to do. We were perfect for each other, we never fight big (except that one time) and we hate being apart, why prolong it? So I dished out $6,000 and bought a gorgeous ring. It had this Celtic design engraved on it with nice, but not bombastic, diamond in laid.
I sent her a text "babe, im sorry for making you angry. I promise everything will be ok when you return. Have fun and your ass better not come back broke!"
A few days later I picked her up from the airport. We took a cab a few blocks from her place and decided to walk the way. She stopped me and said all of a sudden "i slept with someone". I froze, my heart began to ache. Tears instantly from my eyes. I asked her why and she said "i dont know, but I need you to forgive me. It was a mistake"
I pulled out the ring, showed her. She gasped. I threw it down the sewer and walked away.
I nearly took my life that night. Good thing I had my friends around.
That was the worse night of my life and god I hope no one ever has to go through that.
So cheers to my fellow depressed. Life does get better! Bite the moment and keep looking forward to the bright days!