Then the fault lies with the school that allowed the kids to be videotaped without their consent. Why isn't anybody questioning them?
Didn't the guy already say that he wasn't honest with the school about his intentions?
This is one of the things that baffles me. If I were a school administrator, nobody would be filming my students. Period. Maybe, if ABC wanted to do a feature on how mine was the greatest school in the universe, maybe. Some guy wants to film first graders for some alleged project? No dice. There's just too much liability. They had waivers signed, so the CYA aspect is taken care of, but it's still a pretty bad idea and they're still going to be settling lawsuits for the next 5 years.
I see no harm whatsoever in his actions, but he probably should have known that you don't need to do anything wrong to get hosed by the paranoid and dimwitted culture of overprotective parents.
Sorry, this is one of the few times I honestly can't figure out where your coming from. If he'd been honest with the school about the kind of video he was making, parents could have objected and made sure their kids weren't a part of it. Instead, they had no choice. He coerced a room full of people into being a part of his video. How is that fair? Frankly, if I showed up in someone's video without permission or even knowledge of what kind of video was being made I'd be angry, especially if I found the subject material and the way I was presented to be offensive. Among other things, I'd be looking for a paycheck!
So the harm here is that they didn't get the opportunity to cash in? That's actually the first argument I've seen that makes any sense. Except that there was no commercial element here. My problem is with the parents, both the real ones and the hypothetical ones in here, discussing how they lost their innocence. That's ridiculous. This had absolutely no affect on those kids, unless the parents sat them down and showed them the video, and even then I doubt they'd give a shit.
How 'bout these guys. They didn't seek to be on camera. All they did was enter a venue with a sign posted that said you might be filmed--deal with it. Exactly the same level of consent that the parents signed off on at this school. I'd say that these two have much more of a right to be outraged than the parents of those kiddos since they're intentionally being made the objects of ridicule instead of merely being unaware spectators (like everybody sitting around them), and yet I suspect that none of us would suggest that anybody should be sued or prosecuted over this. If it were a kid picking his nose, all of these same parents would say "d'awwww, how cute!"
Now, for my one and only bit of contrition. None of us have seen the video. I can actually imagine a scenario where it might have been over the line. If he edited it in such a way that when he alluded to
the shocker in his song, there was a close up of a girl reacting as if she wanted a finger in her ass, then yeah, we've got a problem here. But at the same time, my initial thought about the video was that the kids were presented just like the old ladies in every single Monty Python episode. No harm, no foul. I guess where we might be having this disconnect is how we automatically assume the content of a video we haven't seen.
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