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Title: I will be a father!!!!!!!
Post by: The Silent Cody on September 14, 2017, 10:56:50 PM
Yes!! Like topic says - I will became a father probably at the end of May 2018!!!! I just had to share that great news with You Guys!! It's 4th week, The Little Silent Cody is growing and probably is very small now and looks like one poppy seed, but I just can't wait when he (I prefer he ;) )or she will be with us! Appreciate !!  :biggrin:
 :metal :metal :metal :metal  :tup :tup :tup :tup  :yarr :yarr :yarr :yarr
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Post by: Cool Chris on September 14, 2017, 11:03:06 PM
Appreciates. As you will, more and more, each day.
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Post by: El Barto on September 14, 2017, 11:04:57 PM
 :tup (since you seem excited about it)
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Post by: Adami on September 14, 2017, 11:12:19 PM
Thank the mother every god damn day for literally creating a life inside of her and doing all the work involved with it.
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Post by: The Silent Cody on September 14, 2017, 11:18:47 PM
:tup (since you seem excited about it)
I am!  :D

Thank the mother every god damn day for literally creating a life inside of her and doing all the work involved with it.
That's exactly what I'm doing  :tup
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Post by: bl5150 on September 14, 2017, 11:40:57 PM
Congrats mate.

Are we going to get a survivor on baby names?  ;D

Oh - and enjoy the "silence" while it lasts :lol
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Post by: The Silent Cody on September 15, 2017, 12:02:29 AM
Congrats mate.

Are we going to get a survivor on baby names?  ;D

:lol I have to admit - this is not such a bad idea  :biggrin:
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Post by: ariich on September 15, 2017, 12:07:29 AM
Congrats man! Me too actually - due end of Feb 2018. :)

Thank the mother every god damn day for literally creating a life inside of her and doing all the work involved with it.
So much this. My missus has been affected pretty badly by pregnancy sickness and always worries about not being productive when she's unable to do anything and I'm like "YOU'RE LITERALLY PRODUCING ANOTHER HUMAN THAT'S AS PRODUCTIVE AS IT GETS". :lol
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Post by: The Silent Cody on September 15, 2017, 12:13:18 AM
Congrats man! Me too actually - due end of Feb 2018. :)

(...)
Congrats!!!  :metal :metal
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Post by: Kwyjibo on September 15, 2017, 12:15:52 AM
Congrats to both of you, keeping the DTF family growing.  :biggrin:

And being a father is the greatest thing that can happen.  :metal :metal :metal
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Post by: Zydar on September 15, 2017, 01:02:51 AM
Congrats! :metal
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Post by: MirrorMask on September 15, 2017, 01:20:24 AM
Congratulations! But since I don't know you, a little part of me actually is picturing your Happy Tree Friend character that you use as avatar becoming father  :D

Best wishes!  :tup
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Post by: The Silent Cody on September 15, 2017, 01:31:25 AM
 ;D
Thank You !!!
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Post by: The Walrus on September 15, 2017, 06:50:17 AM
Congratulations dude!!
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Post by: OpenYourEyes311 on September 15, 2017, 01:28:00 PM
Very cool! I'm enjoying the heck out of being a father. My son is 8 months old this Sunday, and he's such a cool little dude. Have fun with it!
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Post by: TAC on September 15, 2017, 07:11:36 PM
So Cody actually got laid?

 ;D
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Post by: The Silent Cody on September 15, 2017, 10:04:46 PM
So Cody actually got laid?

 ;D
:metal
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Post by: gmillerdrake on September 16, 2017, 08:19:37 AM
Congrats Sir! Parenting has been an incredible, rewarding journey for me.....I hope it treats you wonderfully as well. There's nothing like the first moment you see and hold your child.
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Post by: Mladen on September 16, 2017, 08:51:19 AM
Congrats, Cody!  :metal
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Post by: wolfking on September 17, 2017, 04:47:54 AM
Congrats to you and the missus Cody!

Er.......better make sure both Ryche and Helloween surviviors are all finished by then mate. ;)
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Post by: TempusVox on September 17, 2017, 05:46:09 AM
Congratulations to you both. Spend as much time as you can teaching your kids that real fathers are capable of being strong and expressing love for their families. My father and many men of his generation didn't.

 I remember my son and I, once when he was about 10, went to an NFL sponsored All Pro Dad event. All Pro Dad is an organization that was started by former NFL coach Tony Dungy, to help fathers become better parents and husbands. Check it out if you get the chance. Anyway, we were at this event, and we were on an NFL field with about 500 other Dads and their kids. We got to kick field goals, and throw passes to each other, etc. One of the exercises they had us all do was for the fathers to hug their kids for 60 seconds. That was it. Just one minute. My son and I were embraced when he said to me, "What's wrong with everybody Dad, we could do this all day?" I looked around, and was shocked to see that about 90% of all the Dads were physically uncomfortable. And so we're their kids. It was unreal.  When we left my son said to me, "I'm glad I have a Dad that I know loves me." It made be almost break down and cry.

 Another thing I never took for granted, was the chance to tell my son that I loved him every time I dropped him off at school, or sports practice, or whatever. One day when he was in high school one of his friends was with him, and when we parted we told each other our " I love you," and as they were walking away the friend says, "Dude, I know he cares about me, but my dad never tells me that." My son is now 20. We still tell each other that all the time.

 I know my grandkids one day, when my son has children of his own, are going to grow up and not have to try to gain his love or approval. He's going to tell them and let them know, no matter the circumstance in life, their dad (and grandad) love them.

The point is, of course you love your child, but show them. Tell them. Hug them. Let them see you tell their mother too.

 Enjoy the adventure of being a dad. It's an amazing thing!
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Post by: splent on September 24, 2017, 10:27:24 AM
Congrats! Enjoy the ride. I'm still enjoying it!