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Title: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ZeppelinDT on September 06, 2011, 06:10:23 PM
"... because if you want to listen to the music, you can just play the album"

A friend of mine said that to me this weekend.  Those were his exact words.  I don't know if I can be his friend anymore.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: orcus116 on September 06, 2011, 06:12:03 PM
Depends on the band. Some play about as good or not as great as the albums but some bands are a god damn experience.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: dethklok09 on September 06, 2011, 06:13:18 PM
Yeah doesn't he realize it's better when you watch it on dvd? :neverusethis:

In all seriousness though I'm gonna guess he has never been to one.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: zxlkho on September 06, 2011, 06:14:06 PM
If that was my friend, I would never speak to them again.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Nekov on September 06, 2011, 06:14:16 PM
You see your avatar? That's what you need to do to your friend.
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Post by: Ravenheart on September 06, 2011, 06:15:58 PM
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Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Sigz on September 06, 2011, 06:19:39 PM
Take him to a Gwar concert, front row.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ZBomber on September 06, 2011, 06:36:43 PM
I hate the fact that most of my IRL friends aren't concert goers.
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Post by: MetalManiac666 on September 06, 2011, 06:38:15 PM
kill him
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Post by: faemir on September 06, 2011, 06:41:28 PM
My brother isn't that big a fan of concerts, sure he's seen Porcupine Tree a few times and Muse, etc. but he's never that bothered, and always declines to see Opeth in london with me despite them being his favourite band.

When he gets back i'm going to ask him why specifically though.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: senecadawg2 on September 06, 2011, 07:31:57 PM
Haha, i guess it does sort of depend on the band. Still a crazy thing to say though.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: bout to crash on September 06, 2011, 08:03:55 PM
Take him to a Gwar concert, front row.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: PuffyPat on September 06, 2011, 08:08:22 PM
That statement is just dead wrong. I went to a concert this weekend for my favorite band. It was my third time seeing them, and they finally played my favorite song, which also happens to be my favorite song of all time. The way I felt when he hit the first chord was something I have never felt by just listening to the song. It was, as Zander said, an "almost euphoric" feeling. You can't get that by just listening to an album.

Take him to a Gwar concert, front row.

Also this.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Ben_Jamin on September 06, 2011, 08:10:25 PM
Maybe they don't see the reason in paying a fuckload just to see a concert.

But, I would've asked him why he thinks that. Just to see his response.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: True Death of Life on September 06, 2011, 09:47:42 PM
Take him to a Gwar concert, front row.

But seriously. I've only been to a few concerts--only one of them being a true rock concert, the others being obscure indie bands--and I know this is wrong. I went to a venue that had roughly 170 people attending, a tiny stage, and no fancy shit, and it was one of the most amazing things I've ever experienced. Mad concert fever afterwards.

It's plain and simple: through a CD, you receive the musicians' energy indirectly. At a concert, you get the full blast.

Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: dongringo on September 06, 2011, 10:52:40 PM
"... because if you want to listen to the music, you can just play the album"

A friend of mine said that to me this weekend.  Those were his exact words.  I don't know if I can be his friend anymore.

What friend?
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: chknptpie on September 06, 2011, 10:54:48 PM
Perhaps he hasn't had an emotional connection in a live setting? It's all about the experience you have with the other audience members and the band themselves.

Also... don't artists make most of their money off ticket sales?
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: BlobVanDam on September 06, 2011, 11:32:16 PM
"... because if you want to listen to the music, you can just play the album"

A friend of mine said that to me this weekend.  Those were his exact words.  I don't know if I can be his friend anymore.

"Cinemas are such a waste of money, because if you want to watch the movie you can just wait and see it on TV."

Has he ever even been to a concert? If he thinks it's just about hearing the songs the exact same way, he doesn't even know what he's missing out on.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Super Dude on September 06, 2011, 11:34:23 PM
I do believe it depends on the band.  Also in a combination of being on the verge of my own complete economic dependence and my current favorite band being the Beatles, I'll probably stay away from concerts for a while.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Lowdz on September 07, 2011, 09:31:45 AM
Is your friend a rock/metal fan? In other forms of music maybe it's not essential. If he is a rock fan he certainly hasn't seen the bands I have. It's like being a Christian and not going to Church (Disclaimer- other religions are available).

I had to go to see DT on their recent tour. I just couldn't stay away- even though it really put me out having to travel. It just had to be done.

Take your friend to see KISS. Every rock fan should see KISS at least once, it's the equivilent to the journey to Mecca for Muslims. If that doesn't change his mind there is no hope.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Xanthul on September 07, 2011, 09:36:05 AM
I hate the fact that most of my IRL friends aren't concert goers.

Same here, I never have anyone to go to concerts with (for example, Opeth comes to my city in November and I will probably end up going alone unless I can convince my wife they won't be growling in more than a couple of songs).
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: jsem on September 07, 2011, 09:42:24 AM
Luckily, I have a few friends that go to concerts - most don't though.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Marvellous G on September 07, 2011, 09:58:00 AM
My non-concert loving friends have recently been converted by seeing Muse at Reading.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: zxlkho on September 07, 2011, 10:08:07 AM
Muse is a very good way to convert people.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Dr. DTVT on September 07, 2011, 10:11:36 AM
Sounds like we got some more test subjects for The Sun Cannon.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: antigoon on September 07, 2011, 11:36:47 AM
Take him to a Gwar concert, front row.

But seriously. I've only been to a few concerts--only one of them being a true rock concert, the others being obscure indie bands--and I know this is wrong. I went to a venue that had roughly 170 people attending, a tiny stage, and no fancy shit, and it was one of the most amazing things I've ever experienced. Mad concert fever afterwards.



Small shows are the best! The energy is unreal.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: zxlkho on September 07, 2011, 12:11:10 PM
Yessss they are.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ShadowWalker on September 07, 2011, 12:58:18 PM

"Cinemas are such a waste of money, because if you want to watch the movie you can just wait and see it on TV."


I think there is some legitimacy to this. I rarely go to the movies anymore, unless it a big budget, big explosions kind of action movie that benefits from the big screen experience. And when the day comes that I get my mancave up and running with its big-ass TV and surround-sound setup, there will be no reason to actually go to the movies unless I simply can't wait for the bluray to be released. Between the money spent the ticket and snacks, I will end up spending less on the bluray as a new release, see the same movie (with more in terms of extras) and watch the film as much as I want. I don't think going to a theater enhances the experience of seeing a movie.

Concerts, however, are a unique musical experience and are not a waste of money at all...
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Ben_Jamin on September 07, 2011, 01:09:25 PM
The benefits of concerts is the Live Experience. With a full band, going to rap shows I agree with the OP statement. But others such as Mayhem, and festivals are where its really at.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ZeppelinDT on September 07, 2011, 03:48:28 PM

"Cinemas are such a waste of money, because if you want to watch the movie you can just wait and see it on TV."


I think there is some legitimacy to this. I rarely go to the movies anymore, unless it a big budget, big explosions kind of action movie that benefits from the big screen experience. And when the day comes that I get my mancave up and running with its big-ass TV and surround-sound setup, there will be no reason to actually go to the movies unless I simply can't wait for the bluray to be released. Between the money spent the ticket and snacks, I will end up spending less on the bluray as a new release, see the same movie (with more in terms of extras) and watch the film as much as I want. I don't think going to a theater enhances the experience of seeing a movie.

Concerts, however, are a unique musical experience and are not a waste of money at all...

I think sports make a much better analogy than music.  (e.g., "Going to a football game is a waste of money when you could just watch the game on TV").
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: King Postwhore on September 07, 2011, 03:54:54 PM
I would say your all wrong.  There is a big difference to going to a football game or watching it on TV.  There is so much more you can take in at a game even before TV recognizes it and you don't see all the little nuances that happens at a game.

The same can be said for concert going.  You see the interaction of the band where you don't get that listening to a disk.  There is so much more I could say about this subject.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ytserush on September 07, 2011, 05:40:46 PM
I've been mostly done with going to pro hockey games for years now (You can probably count on two hands the times I've gone to other sports or otherwise. (disclaimer - I'm not a sports guy)) I can go to a Princeton hockey game for $10 and enjoy the experience a lot more than if I went to a Devils game and paid $35 to $40 for the cheap seats. (I only go to Devils games now when they discount the tickets)


But I think concerts are the more unique experience for me anyway, but I'm done with artificially inflated ticket and memorabilia prices. Most concerts are a waste of money when Ticketbastard and Jive Nation are involved. The ticket price to non-Ticketbastard and Jive Nation shows is usually cheaper too.

Example: Look at the Dream Theater Beacon show and compare it with Albany, Morristown, and Philly.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Ben_Jamin on September 07, 2011, 05:54:52 PM
I've been mostly done with going to pro hockey games for years now (You can probably count on two hands the times I've gone to other sports or otherwise. (disclaimer - I'm not a sports guy)) I can go to a Princeton hockey game for $10 and enjoy the experience a lot more than if I went to a Devils game and paid $35 to $40 for the cheap seats. (I only go to Devils games now when they discount the tickets)


But I think concerts are the more unique experience for me anyway, but I'm done with artificially inflated ticket and memorabilia prices. Most concerts are a waste of money when Ticketbastard and Jive Nation are involved. The ticket price to non-Ticketbastard and Jive Nation shows is usually cheaper too.

Example: Look at the Dream Theater Beacon show and compare it with Albany, Morristown, and Philly.

I agree....launchpad shows here are usually $5 (for lesser known bands) to $20 (for known bands), The Sunshine Theater charges $10 (for lesser known) to $45 (for known) but it depends on the band that is playing
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ZeppelinDT on September 08, 2011, 08:08:50 AM
I would say your all wrong.  There is a big difference to going to a football game or watching it on TV.  There is so much more you can take in at a game even before TV recognizes it and you don't see all the little nuances that happens at a game.

The same can be said for concert going.  You see the interaction of the band where you don't get that listening to a disk.  There is so much more I could say about this subject.

That was exactly my point... :)
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Post by: rumborak on September 08, 2011, 08:53:10 AM
If the guy listens mostly to rap, I would say he is correct. I like the occasional (German) rap artists, but it just doesn't translate live. Same thing with something like Black Eyed Peas. Might as well spend the money on a dance club.

rumborak
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Post by: Bedwetting Cosmonaut on September 08, 2011, 08:56:52 AM
I did not get a chance to read through the entire thread because I am in a rush but I will say that I have never once thought for a second that concerts are a waste of money. I absolutely love the feeling you get in your chest while you watch a band live!

BC
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: obscure on September 08, 2011, 11:22:19 AM
I am happy to spend one third of my salary on concerts.... it's an addiction... nothing compares to that feeling....
I've seen around 20 gigs this year... most of them alone....
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: BlobVanDam on September 08, 2011, 11:28:00 AM
I've never been to a concert alone - I need a ride! :biggrin:

I can understand people thinking concerts are a rip off in Australia, because they kind of are. We're such an isolated and worthless spot to tour, that the ticket prices are insane. I'll be seeing Motley Crue this month, and that cost me $175 for a seated ticket, not on the floor (although it's still pretty close, as it's a great venue).

You Americans have it good for prices.
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Post by: ReaperKK on September 08, 2011, 11:31:44 AM
I know a few people who just aren't into going to shows, which is fine if that's what they want to do.

I'm the opposite, if there is a band that I'm even remotely interested in I'll go see them and my friends can tag along if they wish however if I'm alone I have no problem meeting and talking to people seeing as you already have something to talk about.

I'm with ytse on pro hockey, I'm not really a sports guy but I bought season tickets for the tampa bay lightening because live hockey is crazy fun to watch.

Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: obscure on September 08, 2011, 10:07:56 PM

I can understand people thinking concerts are a rip off in Australia, because they kind of are. We're such an isolated and worthless spot to tour, that the ticket prices are insane. I'll be seeing Motley Crue this month, and that cost me $175 for a seated ticket, not on the floor (although it's still pretty close, as it's a great venue).

You Americans have it good for prices.

I thought that gigs in London are expensive...... I mean... $175?  :omg:


I've never been to a concert alone - I need a ride! :biggrin:

fair enough  :laugh:
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: BlobVanDam on September 08, 2011, 11:50:03 PM

I can understand people thinking concerts are a rip off in Australia, because they kind of are. We're such an isolated and worthless spot to tour, that the ticket prices are insane. I'll be seeing Motley Crue this month, and that cost me $175 for a seated ticket, not on the floor (although it's still pretty close, as it's a great venue).

You Americans have it good for prices.

I thought that gigs in London are expensive...... I mean... $175?  :omg:


It depends on the band. Iron Maiden were around the same price. DT cost $120 for general admission (although I didn't pay anyway), but Opeth were only $67, which is as cheap as any concert for a decent band gets here. The cost depends on how big the band is obviously, but I'd say $120 is the average here.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: hefdaddy42 on September 09, 2011, 03:57:47 AM
"... because if you want to listen to the music, you can just play the album"

A friend of mine said that to me this weekend.  Those were his exact words.  I don't know if I can be his friend anymore.
And how hard did you beat his ass after uttering those words?
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Gadough on September 09, 2011, 04:11:59 AM
I remember a substitute teacher I had one day in 7th grade who said this. I don't know how we got on the subject, but she said pretty much verbatim what Zepp said in the OP. Of course, even as 7th graders, we all knew how retarded this was and tried to argue with her. But she wasn't hearing it.

She was a stuck-up old crabby bitch that none of the students liked. Maybe the enjoyment of a concert or two would have done her some good. I dunno.
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Post by: kári on September 09, 2011, 04:28:23 AM

I can understand people thinking concerts are a rip off in Australia, because they kind of are. We're such an isolated and worthless spot to tour, that the ticket prices are insane. I'll be seeing Motley Crue this month, and that cost me $175 for a seated ticket, not on the floor (although it's still pretty close, as it's a great venue).

You Americans have it good for prices.

I thought that gigs in London are expensive...... I mean... $175?  :omg:


It depends on the band. Iron Maiden were around the same price. DT cost $120 for general admission (although I didn't pay anyway), but Opeth were only $67, which is as cheap as any concert for a decent band gets here. The cost depends on how big the band is obviously, but I'd say $120 is the average here.
That is absolutely insane.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: obscure on September 09, 2011, 04:36:47 AM

I can understand people thinking concerts are a rip off in Australia, because they kind of are. We're such an isolated and worthless spot to tour, that the ticket prices are insane. I'll be seeing Motley Crue this month, and that cost me $175 for a seated ticket, not on the floor (although it's still pretty close, as it's a great venue).

You Americans have it good for prices.

I thought that gigs in London are expensive...... I mean... $175?  :omg:


It depends on the band. Iron Maiden were around the same price. DT cost $120 for general admission (although I didn't pay anyway), but Opeth were only $67, which is as cheap as any concert for a decent band gets here. The cost depends on how big the band is obviously, but I'd say $120 is the average here.

I see....
From a business point of view... it should also have something to do with costs... Most of the bands are based in the US anyway... For Australia cost factor kicks in.... travelling, accommodation, food costs add too much...

Once I was mediating between the German music production company and Turkish venue owners/organisers for Pain of Salvation concert.... There were two options on the table... by bus and by plane.... There was an unbelivable gap between the two...

Anyway.... I've always wanted to move to Australia one day.... gig prices obviously won't help  :-\


"... because if you want to listen to the music, you can just play the album"

A friend of mine said that to me this weekend.  Those were his exact words.  I don't know if I can be his friend anymore.
And how hard did you beat his ass after uttering those words?

whenever I hear such silly words, that's what I feel like doing  :D
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: BlobVanDam on September 09, 2011, 04:48:59 AM
I see....
From a business point of view... it should also have something to do with costs... Most of the bands are based in the US anyway... For Australia cost factor kicks in.... travelling, accommodation, food costs add too much...

Once I was mediating between the German music production company and Turkish venue owners/organisers for Pain of Salvation concert.... There were two options on the table... by bus and by plane.... There was an unbelivable gap between the two...

Anyway.... I've always wanted to move to Australia one day.... gig prices obviously won't help  :-\

The problem is, you can't tour across the entire country here like you can in places like the US. You play the 6 or so major cities in the country, and that's it, there's literally nowhere inbetween to play.
We're a country the size of USA, and yet you can only play a handful of total shows. A lot of travel, a lot of cost, not a lot of profit. Gig prices aren't the biggest problem though. The problem is bands coming here at all. I can't blame bands for not coming here. :lol

So when people here say concerts are a waste of money, I can't blame them. Just glad I have the money to "waste" on it.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Fluffy Lothario on September 09, 2011, 04:52:50 AM
I can understand that line of thinking to an extent, to be honest. The price of a concert isn't just the price of a ticket, there's also transport (public for me), possibly accommodation, on-site food/beer, merch. That gets expensive, especially if you're dirt poor. I make an effort to see my absolute favourite bands, but otherwise, I'd have to be persuaded to fork out for a concert.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: obscure on September 09, 2011, 04:55:23 AM
The problem is, you can't tour across the entire country here like you can in places like the US. You play the 6 or so major cities in the country, and that's it, there's literally nowhere inbetween to play.

That's another issue... definitely...

So when people here say concerts are a waste of money, I can't blame them. Just glad I have the money to "waste" on it.

I'm with you on this... It wouldn't be an exaggeration if I say I want (extra) money only for this...
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ReaperKK on September 09, 2011, 06:21:35 AM
I can understand that line of thinking to an extent, to be honest. The price of a concert isn't just the price of a ticket, there's also transport (public for me), possibly accommodation, on-site food/beer, merch. That gets expensive, especially if you're dirt poor. I make an effort to see my absolute favourite bands, but otherwise, I'd have to be persuaded to fork out for a concert.

I can definitely relate to this when I was younger and I just didn't have the money to see anyone or I could only afford to just see the show.

Luckily I got a pretty sweet job so I some additional money to spend on concerts, I make a whole night out of it dinner, drinks at the show, show tickets, that sort of thing, people go to movies, I go to concerts.

However I've never spent the amount of money that blob is talking about in Australia (well I have but it was only for Score, Roger Waters, and U2), most shows I see are $25 or under.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Super Dude on September 09, 2011, 07:41:54 AM
Take him to a Gwar concert, front row.

But seriously. I've only been to a few concerts--only one of them being a true rock concert, the others being obscure indie bands--and I know this is wrong. I went to a venue that had roughly 170 people attending, a tiny stage, and no fancy shit, and it was one of the most amazing things I've ever experienced. Mad concert fever afterwards.



Small shows are the best! The energy is unreal.

I wanna do this so badly.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: antigoon on September 09, 2011, 08:59:08 AM
Go to a small show? You should have seen The Dear Hunter on their headlining tour this summer!
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ZeppelinDT on September 09, 2011, 09:13:46 AM
Just to clarify, his general point wasn't really "concerts are too expensive"... it was more along the lines of "spending ANY money on a concert when you could just listen to the album is stupid"
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ReaperKK on September 09, 2011, 10:13:20 AM
Go to a small show? You should have seen The Dear Hunter on their headlining tour this summer!

Small shows are the best, they have a great intimate feel you just get swept up into the music.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Ben_Jamin on September 09, 2011, 12:11:58 PM
Zepp, you need to take this guy to a festival or amazing concert. Also, what does he mainly listen to? If that's what he meant then all these I need to know to make an analysis of wheter or not he's wack or whatever.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Samsara on September 09, 2011, 04:16:20 PM
To the original post -- simply not true at all.

Albums are awesome. But music comes alive when performed well. Sure, not every band enhances their album live, but many do. The changes in tempo due to excitement, the dramatic element of human hands re-creating the music with an audience, it's totally different than listening to an album

I thought once I got my nice surround system and huge TV with a blu-ray, that I might not care much about seeing some shows live. It still doesn't compare. Not in the slightest.

LIVE truly means LIVE (usually), and that energy cannot be duplicated.

Imagine how many less fans PHISH would have if they just put out studio albums, or most bands for that matter. Metallica likely would have died out long before they dialed back the thrash with the Black album had it not been for the element of playing live.

Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ZeppelinDT on September 09, 2011, 06:27:14 PM
Zepp, you need to take this guy to a festival or amazing concert. Also, what does he mainly listen to? If that's what he meant then all these I need to know to make an analysis of wheter or not he's wack or whatever.

He actually went to Bonnaroo 2 years ago, mostly because I convinced him and 2 other friends.  I ended up getting sick and missing the whole thing, but the three of them still went.  He apparently didn't have a very good time (although the other two loved it).
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: Ben_Jamin on September 09, 2011, 06:30:56 PM
Haha...Its cause you weren't there. Nah, that's cool.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: ZeppelinDT on September 09, 2011, 06:52:13 PM
He's also been to Warped Tour a few times.  He used to be a punk/ska sorta guy, although lately I don't know that he really listens to everything.  Probably just whatever his girlfriend tells him to like.
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: obscure on September 10, 2011, 07:43:11 AM
poor guy.... such a wasted life....
Title: Re: "Concerts are such a waste of money...."
Post by: cramx3 on September 11, 2011, 09:14:52 PM
Take him to a Gwar concert, front row.

This... I know from experience.