So I started talking to this gorgeous Italian woman last night. Yes, bonus points for being Italian. So we talked all night and realized we have lots of parallels. However, she mentioned that she is going on a cruise with her husband (they're only separated) in May, without the kids, to see how they do on their own. I guess she figures if the stress in the marriage comes from the four children they have together, and it's not just because they're tired of each other, then she thinks it can be saved. My question is this. Why the fuck is she on a dating site looking for someone if her intention is to try and save her marriage? That explains why she doesn't have any photos on her profile. She's probably testing the waters and keeping it from her husband.