I've run into a little dilemma and I'm not quite sure what I should do.
I've been talking to two different women, both for only about 4-5 days. The interactions are completely different. Woman 1 is 32 and the conversation is always heavy/serious. That's fine, whatever, I don't mind opening up. But every time I try to get some sort of casual conversation flowing in text, she always comes back to the serious tone. The kind of things some other people might think are things to be talked about later, at least after you've met the person. But, I guess at this point for her, that's the type of stuff she wants to know in "getting to know" me. I just don't want to get ahead of myself, and there's lots of questions about love and romance and the future.
Woman 2 is 27 and kind of in a more similar point in life to me. We've been messaging online, and every reply seems to get longer. To a point where we have to split up our responses into two messages because there's a 4000 character limit. Ive actuslly had to find time to sit and reply, cuz it honestly takes some time. Needless to say, there's no shortage of conversation. And the conversation is so good because we have a lot of shared interests. I told her I would try to streamline the conversation so we could fit it in one message, and she said don't worry about, she likes the long conversation.
The dilemma is that Woman 2 initially said she would probably have to wait until after her Paris trip, leaving next Tuesday for a week. So at minimum, I would have to wait two weeks to meet her. Woman 1 said that Friday night looks good for her. I said that sounds good. Then I heard from Woman 2 and she said that the only day she could meet before her trip would be Friday. Science damn you timing! Now that I've been presented this dilemma, I'm feeling like I'd rather go out with Woman 2, and try to reschedule with Woman 1. I'm not sure I want to wait two plus weeks, and it kinda seems like she might want to go out before she leaves. Should I go with my gut here? I know at this point the only person I owe anything to is myself.