Yup. Think of the things she loved to do. For us as a family it was getting together. I was my mom's favorite thing when we were all together as a family so we do our best to have dinner once in a while and do things as a family together.
I also made a promise when my mom was in the hospital to never have a cigar again. She died of lung cancer and though I never was a cigarette smoker, I loved cigars. Well, it's been 5 years since I've had one. It's the least I could do for my mom.