I actually disagree with that - "if the band has gotten over it, so should you." (They don't all seem to have anyway). Mike's actions have left a bad taste in my mouth, and regardless of his relationship with DT, that taste is still there. I'm not going to flood his social media with negativity, or call him names and stuff here. But at the same time, I've become almost completely uninterested in his musical offerings. Maybe I "shouldn't," but that's the way it goes. Whereas if he hadn't engaged in all of that, I would put it more of an effort. For example - I didn't like Adrenaline Mob, but I went to the show anyway to support him. There'd been some shenanigans, but I tried to ignore them and make excuses for why he might be behaving that way. By the time SoA came along and I didn't like it - that goodwill was long gone; I had no desire to go to a show to support him for a band I didn't like, and my interest in something I do like such as Flying Colors as faded. Were he to put out an apology, then maybe that would change. Maybe I'd try harder to keep up with all of his projects. As it stands now - maybe as more time passes and he doesn't engage in the bad public behavior at all, I'll come around. Or maybe I won't care about his behavioral anymore but also won't be paying him any attention at all. He won't care about what one fan does or doesn't do, but I know I'm not the only one and I also know that with the state of the music industry and there being so much out there competing for people's time and money - it might make a small difference. It certainly wouldn't hurt.