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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #35 on: December 21, 2011, 12:59:10 AM »
:corn  :laugh:

*yawns and slips arm over shoulder*

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #36 on: December 21, 2011, 01:02:32 AM »
You know, I was initially kind of offended by how Andres presented his point, but now that I know it's a joke, I say he's a pretty funny guy in an Adult Swim/Fox Cartoons sorta way. 

Just make sure to make it more clear you're joking, next time, Andres. 

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #37 on: December 21, 2011, 01:02:45 AM »
:corn  :laugh:

*yawns and slips arm over shoulder*

 :rollin :rollin :rollin


It's been ages since somebody did that to me.... Holy Teen Spirit  :lol




Thanks Cup.... If that's the case I'm sure Andres will make it up to us....

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #38 on: December 21, 2011, 01:03:18 AM »
Sometimes the classics are the best. :hat

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #39 on: December 21, 2011, 01:16:03 AM »
:corn  :laugh:

*yawns and slips arm over shoulder*

 :rollin :rollin :rollin


It's been ages since somebody did that to me.... Holy Teen Spirit  :lol




Thanks Cup.... If that's the case I'm sure Andres will make it up to us....

Of course, love.

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Let me walk you home there seems to be some creeps out tonight.

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #40 on: December 21, 2011, 01:18:12 AM »
Now that's how it's done, Andres.

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #41 on: December 21, 2011, 01:18:48 AM »
 :lol learning fast!

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #42 on: December 21, 2011, 01:26:26 AM »

Let me walk you home there seems to be some creeps out tonight.

It's only creepy if the attention is unwanted.

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #43 on: December 21, 2011, 01:37:49 AM »
I can't imagine one single woman on whole world who wouldn't welcome your attention darling... Damn.... Creep me out, chase me down lonestar!

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #44 on: December 21, 2011, 01:40:12 AM »
 :lol

What the hell was this thread about anyways?

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #45 on: December 21, 2011, 01:41:42 AM »
I'm not one for approachal and pick-ups, but I can stand around and maintain my atheist-death-stare for generations!

That isn't the wrong creepy, is it?

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #46 on: December 21, 2011, 01:42:41 AM »
:lol

What the hell was this thread about anyways?

I don't remember... extremely distracted now  :lol

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #47 on: December 21, 2011, 01:44:47 AM »
Ditto. :)

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #48 on: December 21, 2011, 01:51:43 AM »
I think the moral of the story is to be a gentle(wo)man and look out for your partner.

Or only date people who have cars. 

Could be an and/or situation.

Don't take advice from me at night ever unless I've consumed enough caffeine; now that's a moral that you can always rely on!   :tup

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #49 on: December 21, 2011, 04:39:39 AM »
LOL

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #50 on: December 21, 2011, 05:45:33 AM »
You always walk the girl home. Unless you want them to die.

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #51 on: December 21, 2011, 06:47:17 AM »
I was just making jokes, love.

Some trolls are subtle, so subtle that it takes 100 posts to realize it was a trolling effort. Others are somewhat obvious. You push convention aside and troll hard. Keep trolling, my friend.  That got several hooks instantly.  Outstanding.  :lol

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #52 on: December 21, 2011, 06:56:18 AM »
Women aren't attacked "all the time". When it happens it usually gets in the paper (if it were really frequent it wouldn't), and the fear is too propped up. Revealing clothing or not doesn't make THAT much of a difference, it may help slightly to be well dressed.

But I'd still be very comfortable with a woman walking through town late at night alone like that. Actually, even men walking along like that if it's a substantial distance. Escorting her home or to the bus stop/train station or taking a taxi with her to her house or whatever is the best way to deal with this.

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #53 on: December 21, 2011, 06:56:51 AM »
Either walk her home or call her a taxi.  She is your girlfriend.  Some people don't like the "your" part of it, saying it connotes possession or other ugly words, but that's beside the point.  There is now some responsibility on your part.

Think of it this way:  You're sitting here trying to figure out whether or not you should escort her home, and decide not to.  On the walk home, alone, she gets attacked.  You find out when she calls you from the hospital a few hours later.

Does that help you make your decision?
I feel responsibility but I know she's travelling and walking home from work at night too which I don't like. Are you talking about dates?

So, Andy, what did you come up with?
Inviting her back whenever we go out at night seems the only option. A car would be best but too expensive all things considered at the moment.

Share a car.
That would be ideal. But ISTR my dad telling me many years ago about breaking up with his g/f even more years earlier about doing this although I'm not sure why exactly. Maybe another area where marriage would be better first.
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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #54 on: December 21, 2011, 07:35:34 AM »
Most of the time, my 'girlfriends' have driven me home....or to her own place, which is what usually happened.... :hat






(although I have been known to be sent on my way to walk home at 6 or 7 in the morning)  :facepalm:
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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #55 on: December 21, 2011, 07:42:53 AM »
Most women are attacked by a significant other or someone they are close to... if you love her let her walk alone, its probably safer  :P

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #56 on: December 21, 2011, 09:55:14 AM »
Either walk her home or call her a taxi.  She is your girlfriend.  Some people don't like the "your" part of it, saying it connotes possession or other ugly words, but that's beside the point.  There is now some responsibility on your part.

Think of it this way:  You're sitting here trying to figure out whether or not you should escort her home, and decide not to.  On the walk home, alone, she gets attacked.  You find out when she calls you from the hospital a few hours later.

Does that help you make your decision?
I feel responsibility but I know she's travelling and walking home from work at night too which I don't like. Are you talking about dates?

Weren't you?  You can't help it if she works at night and walks home alone, but if you ask her out, she's your responsibility until she's back home safely.

Obviously, however, my views are pretty different from most others in this thread.  I know two women who have been raped, both were attacked while walking alone at night, and I don't consider it a topic open for trolling and joking around, but that's just me.  If you're fine letting her walk home alone at night because women are "almost never" attacked, or because more women are supposedly assaulted by acquaintances than by strangers (although I don't see how that makes walking alone at night any safer), then by all means, let her go.  Where I live, there's no question of "if" it will happen; the question is "when".

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #57 on: December 21, 2011, 10:48:12 AM »
 :sadpanda: It was just a joke and I don't think walking alone at night is safer. I thought my  :P made that clear.

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #58 on: December 21, 2011, 02:54:30 PM »
You always walk the girl home. Unless you want them to die.

So any vehicle on wheels is not possible?
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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #59 on: December 21, 2011, 03:39:48 PM »
:sadpanda: It was just a joke and I don't think walking alone at night is safer. I thought my  :P made that clear.

I know, I'm just being an asshole.  Sorry.  It's just not something I joke about.

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Re: Escorting your g/f home
« Reply #60 on: December 22, 2011, 01:06:58 AM »
Turns out I'm the only wild cat here... I never get scared when I walk home alone at any time of day....