Yes, I'm an awful person...it's automatic, with clutchless manual. The option for fully manual is there...I just never learned stick
I'm actually already thinking ahead a few years, making sure I've learned stick by then, and going for an M1 or M3 (hopefully the M1 will be available in something other than black or valencia orange by then). Possibly the 335i coupe convertible. Straight manual is an option for all models...though it's no cheaper.
Yes, it pops. It's made those annoying-ass short on-ramps on the LI highways into launch pads. I can confirm 0-60 in 5.7, and 0-75 in about 7. Easy to go 90+ without really realizing it (a bigger deal in NY than TX). I find that I arrive places earlier than I expect to.
I'd like to get it on some midwestern roads where I can really open it up.
Very maneuverable, and I've taken to zipping through tight spots while blowing right by people. Though when you hit a pothole, it feels like you've been hit with a baseball bat (sport tires and sport suspension).
I didn't try a 3 series, so I really can offer a comparison.