Ben you always make it sound like covid is nothing, is that really what you believe or not?
That is not my intention if it comes across that way.
I do know that it is around. I know this, because the people in my community also had gotten hit hard, with a flu-like illness, during the mid-December to mid-January months, this was when Covid wasn't really known about, yet these people all experienced the symptoms that were pretty much identical to the symptoms of Covid, My dad included. Although, they were hit pretty good, it wasn't bad to where they needed to go into the hospital. As of this moment, we don't know what it was they had, all they were told is that it was a "Stronger Flu" and to get rest, it could very well have been covid, but as it stands we don't know.
I am just a person who tries not to let fear get the best of me. I try not to fear when in the face of danger. Even regarding Death, I do not see it as a big issue or deal, and this I feel is due to how much death I have seen already and experienced with many people I knew, Friends, Family, and people from my community. I've come to accept, death is a part of life, and we are all going to die someday. The catch is we just don't know when or how, and that is what I believe to be the fear of dying, and the concept of "Carpe Diem", seizing each day, and living like it's the last.
This has led to me to understand that we all are in control of our own lives, and that every decision we make in our lives is our own choice and decision, and there really is no one else to blame but you. As you are the only one in control of your own body. The main focus of your life should be you and only you, and then the other. That is self-responsibility, and I believe we are all accountable for this, and it is an important aspect to having compassion and to have an understanding and respect for the other.
I also did wear a mask when I went out, I did use sanitizer, I do wash my hands all the time when using the bathroom. I did all these things required of us, and am still fine, so are the people I have been around and continued to hang around with. And that was an agreement and decision Me and that person made ourselves. As time went on in the pandemic, I slowly opened up to outside friends, and they were/are fine as well. In the end, they just don't see it as a big enough deal to not want to hang out and enjoy our company. We all are doing these requirements, some took the vaccine and some didn't, and I only know this because they took it upon themselves to tell me, I didn't ask them at all.
Basically, what I believe is. Before you demand to control what someone does to their own body, you should consider looking at your own first before pointing that finger.