it’s not about deciding for anyone else. At this point the optimal solution to this crisis for both health and economic reasons is for everyone to be vaccinated as fast as possible. To use your phrase, what’s so hard to understand about that?
Because, implicitly, it is. The judgement. The use of "stupid" and "illogical" and "selfish" all have connotations to them. There are hundreds of issues facing America (the world, frankly) where the "optimal solution" is disregarded in favor of either political, cultural or individual concerns, and we bend over backwards to make sure we DON'T use judgmental language in order to protect those - emotionally - that we align with. You know it and I know it.
I've got my first shot under my belt, and my second is scheduled for this Monday. I, generally, trust science, I, generally, trust the facts, but there ARE variables here we do not know the values for. And I won't lie: I was scared before the first shot, and I'm even more scared before this one. Scared I'm going to get sick, scared I'm going to increase my odds of some debilitating condition, scared that I'm a lab rat.
But I will do it; not because it's "optimal solution", not because I'm more logical, smarter or giving than anyone else (though I am
) or any of those more sanctimonious reasons (though all of that IS a part of it, on one level). I'm doing it because I feel - not KNOW, FEEL - it's the right thing for ME and for my FAMILY, and will afford me the best odds of staying capable of doing those things - earning, running a house, being a dad - that my family relies on me for. But here's the thing: I would not, I CANNOT, begrudge ANY other human being from doing the same internal calculus, from making the same decision I made, even if they get an opposite answer. Or if they let their fear overcome them and drive their decision. Some - most, maybe all - of us here have stood up for people that cannot or will not make the best decision "logically" or big picture out of fear and we think nothing of it. No, we CELEBRATE it.
Abortion is the ready example; science, facts, say it's probably the "optimal solution" for a certain subset of women to opt for abortion. It's "logical", it's "smart" and it's "selfless", but we wouldn't, for racial, gender, or cultural concerns even DARE to suggest that she should.