I'd love to live in a more rural area. But I don't know that it's in the cards. We used to live in the S.F. Bay Area, which is basically a triangle of 3 cities (San Francisco, San Jose, and Oakland), separated by a now-continuous VERY concentrated suburban sprawl. We got away from that to move to Sacramento, which is a much smaller city, surrounded by less dense suburban sprawl, and some rural areas. Then we moved a bit farther east (but within commute distance of Sac) to the base of the Sierra foothills, which is a mix of suburban and rural. Our initial thought was to move into one of the close-by rural areas when the kids (or at least two of them) are out of the house. But we'll see. That won't be for a good 6-10 years. By the time our daughter is out of the house, the boys may likely have families or be not too far from that. And if the kids relocate, we might eventually do the same to be near them. We'll see.