Hmm, well I must say this wasn't quite what I expected to read after opening the thread, but I've got to say that I respect your ability to come out with such a problem without too many inhibitions. I feel as though my stance on the issue would be similar to bosk's, but that's neither here nor there. I think you should do whatever you feel is right and makes you happy-- ultimately it's your peace that matters to you, not anyone else's. As long as you are comfortable with yourself and your decision, then there's nothing else that needs to be said. I do however echo the therapist statements and hope you find one that will help you make the decision that will make you the happiest.
Good luck in whatever decision you decide to make, man! I do believe it's obvious DTF supports you in any road you choose to take, so long as it results in long-term happiness for you, dude! Keep us updated.