Hey, don't know if this is the right spot or not, but... anyone take this opportunity to (over-)analyze (sorry Chad, couldn't resist!) their lives and realize what things they could or could not do without?
There is far more I realize that I can do without than otherwise, but...
I can do without:
- crappy food; I've become much too tolerant in what I accept as "good food", especially when eating out;
- sports. Talk to me when football season is on, but other than Sunday NASCAR (which is less about the race itself than the notion that "it's Sunday, have a drink, watch the race, and relax before work tomorrow") I miss zero sport.
- Cable news. I've had to turn off the cable news entirely. I don't have a TV on anymore, and instead play music during the day. I miss NOTHING about it. I am regressing to my childhood; I put on the local news at 5:00 like my dad did, and I'll (occasionally) put on the news at 10:00 or 11:00 for the weather. I'm more apt to tape it and fast-forward to Kyle Hanrahan or Rachel Frank (our local weatherpeople) and delete the rest.
- Other people. I've gone out about four times now since the start of the lockdown and people are just so fucking inconsiderate it makes me want to scream. I'm at Home Depot to get wire (computer cable I ran so I can relocate my router/modem) and I'm standing there, mask on, gloves on, and some douchebag walks up and stands like 2 feet from me perusing the wire. In my head I'm screaming "SOCIAL DISTANCING, MOTHERFUCKER!" (though I just walked to the end of the aisle to look at other things). People like that are why we have this problem to begin with. I want to get a stamp that says "Tend Your Own Fucking Garden" and stamp them on the forehead, but I don't want to risk jail, and of course, they DO have the right to prioritize their safety like the rest of us.
Things I can't do without:
- my kids/family. I've not gotten bored or annoyed by them once; the dogs are a different story, but we've found ways to bond in these trying times (my daughter bought a poster with 100 movies "you must see" and we're pulling a random number each night and watching that movie. We're in about 10 films so far, though we haven't really been "tested"yet.
- an occasional night out with the boys. It's recharging and relaxing to just go and sit and have a beer with the people I've known for the entirety of my adult life. No explaining necessary, no need for backstory, they were there for most of it, and it's refreshing to just experience human company with little if any judgment or anxiety.
- good food; I take comfort in the notion of a well-cooked, well-thought out meal. I don't get them much because I suck as a cook, but if and when we do get back out there, I'm going to be more selective of my eating, that's for sure.
- a haircut. My hair - while still not long, is longer than it's been in 20 years, and it's annnoying AF. It's too long to be stylish, but not long enough to be stylish, so I'm in that in-between state where I look like that creepy guy with the basement lab in every episode of The Blacklist.
- music. Nuff said.