I dont understand at all man. She has one reason she keeps using, because in the past I've made some rejections to plans she wanted to do with her friends. I get that, and I can make that better and work on it. I actually think her friends are awesome which I've said time and time again and we've all had some fun times together too, it's more so about timing than wanting to do things with her friends that I've said no in the past. Like I dont get how that is a reason to end it all. I think there's more and I don't know, this downfall started a month ago when I asked her to take her time and eventually move in with me now that my brother is out of my house. She had said before she wanted to move in, but I guess things changed and that conversation just lead to her saying she has issues with me, which I thought a month ago, we agreed to work on. I hadn't said no to anything she requested since then. Today is her graduation and I'm not going to be there. It's breaking my heart so bad. I told her last night that I was really upset she didn't want me to be at the graduation which she responded saying she did want me there but as a friend and I just don't think I am capable being around her friends and family and acting like everything is fine. I can't pretend like that and I can't accept we are just friends. She's going to Croatia with her friend this week for 10 days as her graduation gift to herself which is great for her but really sucks that she's just going to be gone and I'm left here trying to figure shit out. I didn't think she was capable of doing this to me, it hurts so much.
Sorry, probably should go back to the lonely hearts thread, but I know you guys here a bit more personally. Thanks for listening.