I'm really TRYING to change the tone of my conversation with this woman. She is just so stuck on the future and true love. I'm laying it down, but she's just not picking it up. I can't get her to just lighten up and be a human, with needs and desires. She tells me she's super against weed and will never be okay with it, and it seems like she's fishing for me to offer to give it up at some point. I tell her it's not going away and she needs to make a decision. She replies with ,"I've made a decision, I'll never be okay with it." So I ask why she's still texting me, and she says, "I don't have an answer to that." She asks me all these ridiculous lines of questions that, no doubt, most people would balk at. I've kinda been whatevs and just playing along for funsies. I told her I just wanna grab some drinks, see how she looks in a sexy little black dress, and flirt a little... or a lot! She says ,"Sounds fair. Sometime easier said than done, but sounds fair." I'm not gonna mislead somebody about there being a future just so I can get some. That's just not me. But it seems clear she's into me. I'm leaning towards telling her that it feels like I'm having to talk her into this, and nobody wants to have to convince someone to go out with them. If she's interested, she should say so.