Happily engaged for over a year and a half. Been with Courtney For nearly 5 years. Looking forward to getting married on May 26th.
One thing has been happening a lot lately. I have been hit on, girls given me their numbers and shit like crazy lately. No, they're not all 10's. Half are barely 2's. I don't know what I am doing to e all of this attention. It hasnt been causing any relationship tension, except for one girl. Her name is Christy and she's a solid 9/10. I think Courtney is a 21/10, for those curious. I met the girl like 4 years ago and she's a total sweetheart. We arent like best friends, or super close. But we talk often and it's fine. Until last week she dropped the bombshell that se has had a crush on me ever since we met. I guess I'm retrospect I shouldn't have been surprised.
I told Courtney, she understood but would rather I didn't talk to Christy as much as I do. I agree with her, but I just feel bad for Christy. She just turned 18 a couple months ago, and I'm 21. She knows Courtney and it's like, ugh. I don't have any feelings for Christy that she has for me, but she's a friend. I feel like I shouldn't talk to her at all.
What do?