I am almost there with you.
I saw The Wrath of Khan and A New Hope around the same time in the mid 80s. TWOK blew my mind. It was the best thing i'd ever seen until Back To The Future.
Star Wars to me was just "ehhhh". Never been into fantasy really. It never really moved me.
I went to see the Phantom Menace on opening day with some school friends and WE ALL KNEW THEN it was awful. We weren't told to hate it by The Internet.
I thought Force Awakens was great but Last Jedi was
and The Rise Of Skywalker was fun but not much else. On the whole a very messy trilogy.
Solo was OK and Rogue one was OK. Vader doing his thing at the end did NOTHING for me as i'm not a Star Wars fan. It was just fan service to me.
I rolled my eyes in the cinema. YES I enjoy 'watching' them - but that's where my enjoyment ends. I don't own a single Star Wars anything. Not for me.
I have this theory that - people aren't REALLY mad that the Sequels are so bad - they're just now realising that Star Wars NEVER WAS that good to begin with.
When you get right down to it - they love A New Hope and Empire Strikes Back. They dont even all like Return of the Jedi.
So they only really like 2 out of like 11 movies.