tjanuranus, how old are you?
Also, I agree with both parties here. I absolutely hate the ass holes who spend spend spend, and yet, can't "afford" food. However, I am a bleeding heart and I feel incredibly bad for the people that need it. What I suggest, granted it would cost a lot of money, is to hire private investigators to deal with a couple of families on well fare. Those who contribute to society get more, while those who don't (i.e. don't try to find work, spend on unnecessary things, cheat the system, etc.) get cut off and die. If they turn to crime, keep em in jail for ever. Yeah, it is social Darwinism at work, but it helps those who need it, and hurts ass holes.
A perfect example comes to mind. I live in an urban area full of people who are like this. "Moochers." My piano teacher always tells his kids of the "only argument he has ever lost." It went something like this:
He was trying to teach piano and one chick just was always talking and being disrespectful. One day, he kinda just couldn't take it any more and asked why she just didn't care. Her response was something along the lines of not needing school because it was stupid. He then said that without school, you can't get a job, and without a job, you can't get money. She responds..."my mother has no job and she gets money." That needs to end.