Yeah, that's where I am, too. I know Lucas considers the books canon as well, but to me that doesn't make any sense. Any schmuck can write a book set in the Star Wars Extended Universe, and even if Lucas supposedly has to okay each one, I'd bet real money that he doesn't read every one of them.
Nothing personal, MOLS, but the number of people who read the books is a tiny, tiny percentage of people who've seen the movies. For enlightenment and perspective, they're fine, but as "proof" because the books are supposedly canonical just seems wrong. And I say that given that you're actually supporting my position.