Just keep your porn use under control. Set aside some specific time each week. Light a candle. Spend some quality time with yourself. Its called a masturdate.
A quote from one of my favorite movies, and movie characters, Gordon Gekko (Wall Street)
"The point is, ladies and gentleman, that porn, for lack of a better word, is good. Porn is right, porn works. Porn clarifies, cuts through, and captures the essence of the male spirit. Porn, in all of its forms; Softcore porn, Anal porn, MILF porn, and even German Shitting Porn, have marked the upward surge of mankind (pun intended). And Porn, you mark my words, will not only save mankind, but that other malfunctioning individual AndyDT. Thank you very much. "