One of a hundred stories....
I bought the engagement ring for my wife. I was up 24 hours. I worked a 16 hour day, drove into Boston to get the ring drove back. I stopped at my old job where my futire mother in law worked to show her the ring. She was not there. Called out for her kid.
So 2 other girls saw the ring. They told her the next day. So when is was coming close to our 3rd anniversary dating she told Lisa, "So has Joe giving you the ring yet?" "He has it you know."
That fucking asshole did that purposely. I have never forgave her for that.