16 for me is not such a good age here. It's honestly becoming very frustrating because my mom and dad expect me to go to a good college
Just curious. Are they just cracking the whip (even if out of love) or are they getting heavily involved? Are they helping you determine which career paths both will help you stay out of poverty while at the same time fit you well enough so you can at least succeed in that choice not just because it gets more money or bragging rights, but you'd probably spend all weekend learning new things about your career even if it wasn't your paying job? Are they introducing you to friends of theirs or making friends with your friends' parents so you can be exposed to their chosen career paths?
Are they giving you advice such as "this extra-curricular activity holds serious weight in the admissions process, whereas this one has diminishing returns?" Are they personally trying to figure out the differences between higher learning school options and why one might be better than the other for your possible career path?
Have they saved any college funds for you? If they hard off financially, are you embarrassed to admit that you need the "poor kid" financial help? Or worse, do they do well enough that your aid has less options, but not well enough to actually fill that hole (either because they can't or won't).
Let them know that they have just as much burden to make this happen as you do. That you know their careers might make the time they have to help limited, but every bit they can help is going to help you stay more focused on the actual academics.
Let me just end with: you are 16 and this is a critical time for you. Especially if you already put in the work from age 0 to 16. No matter how burned out you might feel, it will be nothing compared to the burn out you will feel if you don't just finish that last mile of the marathon. My
friends' experience and the experience of my high school peers was that college was a breeze compared to the stress of the honors/AP high school program. That's mainly because if you did it right, you've built the foundation so you go in with a real road map. But if you feel like you need to take it a bit easier your last one or two years because it is only about to get much tougher so you need a bit of a break so you don't snap later, don't worry. Worry more about having to attend your 2nd or 4th choice instead of your first because you decided to ease up at the finish line.
Of course, if you feel like the stress is getting to you, don't be afraid to share your frustrations. And definitely don't put on a strong facade like you have it all under control if you don't. Your friends are probably going through the exact same stress.