Well that's weird...?
I was at the San Antonio show last night and I can confirm they did skip A Road To Revolution and Whispers. I think they also skipped The X Aspect. Act 2 (after the intermission) seemed to be a much shorter set than Act 1. The crowd got really pumped when they played the encore (As I Am, Spirit, and Pull Me Under). I actually loved this version of Pull Me Under with JP's current guitar sound.
I also attended the Denver show earlier in the year and they did play all of The Astonishing. I don't recall them skipping Road to Revolution.
Overall, it was great. I still hope they release a live version of The Astonishing since it sounds way better in a live setting. The mix last night was close to perfect (got too loud at the end but that seems to be a standard in today's concerts). There was a moment where James sang Moment of Betrayal a bit faster than usual and you could hear the syncing issues between him (main vocal lead) and the background vocals. Other than that, no flubs.
I'm very glad I attended two Astonishing shows. While the studio album kind of drags for me, the live version is definitely a lot better in my opinion. This is my first time that I do multiple DT shows from one album cycle.
Crowd wise, the place was filled up to 80-90%. But the merch stand was just packed. Hopefully they are making up the lost money from ticket sales in merch sales.