I don't think the request itself is self-centered - nothing wrong with asking; all they can do is say no - but his reaction to it is. Looking at FB, consider this exchange:
Mark La Vendemmia Cool interview, man...I think everyone would love to see you perform the 12-step with James Labrie, John Petrucci, John Myung and Jordan Rudess just for one night....I really hope that this will happen...you have done so much together...even if your roads are already so far away, as a fan, it would be nice to see that you still love each other...
Mike Portnoy The invite is open to all 4 of them and their families...I'd love nothing more than to perform these songs w THEM and have them with me to celebrate my 50th...they were all such a huge part of my life!
But I wouldn't hold my breath... : (
Thiago Polisel This is not just an invitation issue. There are contractual and legal provisions that you all have to deal with. It is not so simple. We all know they would never refuse.
Mike Portnoy Thiago Polisel - you are 1000% wrong
Our "contractual and legal provisions" were resolved 5 years ago...
There's no reason we can't all be friends at this stage of our lives...
I hold a big place in my heart for all 4 guys as they were an ENORMOUS part of most of my life...
If they choose to not celebrate my 50th birthday with me, that is their choice...no "legal" reasons whatsoever...sad but true!
Life is too waaaay to short to hold onto grudges and resentments..
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The implication there being that the Dream Theater fellas are holding a grudge, while taking the moral high ground. It's just both funny and sad at this point. And just when it appeared as if he was past being a knucklehead about it...