So, my daily chore list:
up by 5:45am
wake child by 6
child on bus at 6:35am
make coffee
feed cats
laundry
dishes
cans&bottles
recyclables
sweeping
vacuuming
cooler
ice cube trays
litter boxes
cats room
shower
dressed
start something for dinner later
pay bills/check credit scores/reconcile bank statement
run errands
do shopping
attend parent teacher conferences
schedule doctor and dentist visits
take children to appointments, drum lessons, friends houses
all of this must be done in time for me to be here at 3 to get daughter off the bus
Now those are the daily things I make sure to do. That's when I have NOTHING PLANNED FOR THE DAY. Some days there IS something planned - like someone is coming over later, or there is a birthday in the family, or I have a road trip, or an appointment of my own to fit in somehow, or I would like to do something for ME like read a book, plant some vegetable seeds, paint the deck - do ANY extra chores like fixing something that broke, painting a room, cleaning my daughter's room once in awhile... then there's the fact that during all of this *I* have an empty house devoid of other kids messing up EVERY SINGLE THING I DO AS SOON AS ITS DONE.... but if I had a younger child then factor THAT in, along with food, clothing, diapers, bathing, crying, teaching, play group...
now these are all just regular every day type things, again - none of this factors in "what if I'm a single mom? what if my spouse is out of town? what if I have to go to regular doctor appointments for something? what if I have a hobby? want to go to the gym a few times a week?"....
and the only intelligent conversation you have of course is with yourself because you don't get to SEE any other adults when you're a SAHM...
now that the basics are out of the way I can formulate a post with some of the things that aren't a given....
edit: how could I have forgotten dusting, wiping down every shower, tub, and sink, and homework-helper duty? Shame on me.