Uh, if the thing does start spewing gas out and then burst into flames, do you want to be standing next to it when it happens? If there's an explosion at the rear of the car I'd rather be inside and ready to GTF out of dodge at a moment's notice. If 7-11's equipment starts a situation that could cause an explosion it's every man for himself, AFAIC. Not trying to convince anybody of this, mind you, but there is a flaw in the "holy shit, guys!" side of this discussion.
Myself, I usually walk around and clean the windows while it's gassing up anyway. I usually turn the car off, but if it's really cold or I have pax in the car then I sometimes won't. I'd say 10% of the time I leave it running.
Other things to consider are that only once in my 25 years of driving have I ever had a pump spew gas out (didn't click off whilst filling up), and on a cold day gas is actually not hugely combustible with low heat. I know a cigarette won't actually ignite it if it's cold outside. Not sure if a hot cat would or not. Still, nothing I'm particularly worried about.
edit: and now that I think about it, if the automatic shutoff doesn't stop gas from spewing forth, then driving off and letting the hose break away would be a reasonable step since there's a second (hopefully working) safety mechanism in place at that point.