Well add me to the list of guys getting burned
The girl I had been seeing for the past few weeks seems to not be working out now. I really liked her, she was the first girl I've met since I broke up with my x that I felt I connected with. We had so much in common, it was actually scarey how much we had in common. We had sooo much fun when we were together and we even did a weekend road trip together. All was really fun and we both confessed that we "liked" each other and thought there was something here. Well Monday night we hung out, I thought we had a lot of fun and a normal night togehter, but something was off with our sex (or lack of sex that evening) and she siad something was weird. She brought up my x who she admitted she found on facebook and said my x was better looking than she is (which is true, but really had no meaning to me... I didn't like this girl for her looks, but for everything else she was) and she said it was bothering her. I tried to say the right things and I thought it was going to be ok, but yesterday we had our first real road block. We both actually seemingly came out of it good and felt like we settled on the idea that we both liked each other, wanted to continue, thought this could lead to a legit relationship, and that we would both take things slow because the road block was that it seemed like things were going too fast, like we went from never meeting to hanging out every other day in the matter of 3 weeks. We had also started having unprotected sex and both said we would not see other people. Well, she ended up canceling plans for Tuesday night which I said was fine cause I had a headache, plus I was really tired. So last ngiht I get a picture of a steak dinner and a message "look at what I am doing when Im not with you" which I was like, ok cool enjoy your evening. But then she never responded to me the rest of the night. I got a text at 1am "sorry, my phone died. My sister and I went out for a few drinks after dinner and then went to the gym". I find that excuse unbelievable, who goes out for a steak dinner, drinks, then to the gym until 1am? And she also said she stopped home to charge her phone, she didnt think once the phone was on the charger to turn it on and text me back? I called her out on it this morning and am waiting for a response, I didn't call her a lier, just said something felt off from my point of view and asked if there was a reason why I would feel that way. I totally could be going crazy here and letting my emotions get in my way, Im just really upset about how I felt so good and how so quickly I can feel like complete shit. Maybe she was telling the truth, who knows?