Yeah, I'd rather her be honest with me than just tell me some bullshit.
My past two girlfriends..
First: "I don't think I need to be dating right now, gotta focus on school." - 2 weeks later, dating some dude long distance.
Second: "I don't think I need to be dating right now, gotta focus on God." - weeks later, she likes another dude, has a picture of her and him as her profile picture on Facebook, and insists that she isn't dating him. Oh, and she is definitely being hypocritical considering some of the stuff she has done recently.
Is it that hard? If I'm gonna lose interest in someone because someone else has caught my eye, I'm going to tell them. Either way it's going to end ugly, but it'll be the right way if you're honest.
I'm certainly tired of committing to people that simply do not give a shit and can't take a relationship seriously. I'm tired of wasting my time, money, effort, and breath on people like those two.
I used to get really upset over these kinds of things, now I'm just kind of tired of them. They don't bother me so much personally, it'd be nice to just have something work out instead of some cop-out taking place.
I oughta just focus on school and then I can meet someone along the way.