* hug back *
Mine is around 15,000 hz (like the buzzing of an old CRT tv with the volume off) I also have a lighter buzz around 7,000 hz but I hardly hear that one.
It was horrible the first couple of months causing me various panic and anxiety attacks. The doctors say that can happen with such high T since the brain thinks the noise might be a threat. Since I have started listening to music while I work (I am a programmer) it has helped me a lot. At night, the fan kind of helps but for various reasons, I can only sleep on my left side, so it is loud even with the fan.
I guess it just takes a very, very long time to get used to. There are not a lot of people to relate to. The 3 doctors I spoke to have it, but they only hear it at night. I hear it all day, but if I focus on my work, it is much better. If I am outside or in a mall, I do not hear it. If I start feeling nervous or stressed, it becomes twice as loud.
The doctors all thought it was something more serious since it was only in 1 ear. None of them thought you could get permanent tinnitus from one concert. What I got is called acoustic shock, which usually only happens when exposed to explosions. But during MM's drum solo in enigma machine, the cymbals felt really loud and lots of people were whistling him on too, and then I felt almost like a sort of shock in my left ear and thought I had ear wax lodged...
I guess the cymbals + cheering were too much for my ear.
Ironically, I usually go to these shows with my brother (third show of my life over 3 years (DT 2011, Opeth 2013, DT 2014)) who also never wears ear protection, and this time he had a cold and his ears were hurting so he wore ear plugs. I found DT both times to be much louder than Opeth. Opeth was such a fun and comfortable experience. And Mike takes breaks and talks between songs which help the ears recover.
I have made sure to tell all my friends, who frequently go to heavy metal concerts to wear ear protection because tinnitus id horrible. Would not wish it on my worst enemy.