This is a dilemma, but a fun one. I met this really cool lady that I became close friends with. She invites me over to her place on Friday or Saturday nights for dinner and drinks. She always buys my favorite tequila (Hornito's Sauza) and mixes it with fresh lime-ade and a splash of cranberry on the rocks. She calls it Crime-ade, lol! We then listen to alot of great music and the Crime-ade goes down too easy too fast and It's too risky to drive home. To top it all off, she loves to watch Rush, Dream Theater, Yes, Pink Floyd, Iron Maiden etc in concert dvds. I have all the Rush and DT shows ever released and she always asks me to bring them and it's always a great time. She has a excellent sound system and tv which makes it like the concert is in the living room.
This is all a breath of fresh air in my life after going through a major transition, but I'm not really ready for a full on commitment. I've resisted temptation so far and crash in the spare bedroom if I can't drive home. We are having alot of fun though and she's one of my few friends where we can unravel and be ourselves and enjoy good drinks and music with no drama. We're both happy drinkers and keep things light hearted. Admittedly, we really like each other and she's easy on the eyes (even before the tequila). She has no strings attached, no kids, no exes trying to cling on, and is well grounded with a good head on her shoulders. I just want to be fair to her and not play with her heart, because I am still healing from a major tragedy after my wife passed in 2015.. So we're just moving slow for now and keeping it fun which is really nice. I guess we're just partners in crime-ade, cheers!