"good" music, of course
Thats your first problem. Get off of your high horse, the music that you listen to does not
really define you, if you keep on labeling people for the music they listen to you would miss on a lot of great people.
So if you want to be the center of attention(Wich is kind of stupid) you should probably stop with the musical snob(yes i said it) pseudo intellectual philosophy and religion stuff, because no one that is popular talks about that.
My advice to you is to be yourself, because if you want to be the center of attention you would never ever talk about what you like. Talk about the things you like with people that like the same stuff as you, and that way you can actually feel comfortable and confident about yourself.
Just be yourself, thats way better than trying to be that popular guy or that mysterious fella in the corner, because if you keep on trying to change who you are, you are just going to enter on a self loathing cicle, you will always be trying to change and be "better" to fit on that "popular" spot, and that my friend, by the things you have been popsting and asking lately is not what you need.