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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #140 on: December 28, 2011, 11:16:54 AM »
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #141 on: December 28, 2011, 11:27:00 AM »
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #142 on: December 28, 2011, 11:51:41 AM »
-Any over-usage of cosmetics, tanning (real or fake but a healthy looking natural tan can be downright awesome), other artifical means of beauty "enhancement."

-Being loud for the sake of attention at bars (like when a whole bunch of girls who haven't seen each other in, get this,......a whole two weeks, start screaming like retarded banshees when they first see each other and then either think "fuck everyone else for staring at us with dirty looks" or worse yet, are stupid enough to think the attention is positive rather than dirty looks.)

-Girls who expect to be treated like princesses and fail to realize the extremely wide gap between being truly valued and treated well versus being spoiled far beyond the extent of any sane and healthy relationship dynamic. Most of these types that I've seen also think they have no obligation to be awesome on their end of it either and think "just being me" should be enough for their man. Good luck once your looks go south ya uppity c***.

-Girls who don't like/aren't willing to give a chance to exotic cuisines. I doubt I'll be happy with any girl that won't go out for Thai, Greek, sushi, or Indian food with me. They don't have to like it all but at least some. I ain't eating chicken parmigiana at every anniversary dinner for the next 30 years.
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #143 on: December 28, 2011, 11:57:12 AM »
I know this will going against the grain around here, but I find most tattoos to be total turnoffs.  Something small in an easily coverable spot is usually okay by me, but almost any tattoo on a woman that takes work to cover it up with clothing almost always looks trashy to me.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #144 on: December 28, 2011, 11:57:49 AM »
I know this will going against the grain around here, but I find most tattoos to be total turnoffs.  Something small in an easily coverable spot is usually okay by me, but almost any tattoo on a woman that takes work to cover it up with clothing almost always looks trashy to me.

I agree with this sentiment.  I dislike tattoos on girls.
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #145 on: December 28, 2011, 12:00:42 PM »
I know this will going against the grain around here, but I find most tattoos to be total turnoffs.  Something small in an easily coverable spot is usually okay by me, but almost any tattoo on a woman that takes work to cover it up with clothing almost always looks trashy to me.

I agree... it shows the propensity to make bad choices also..thats a turn off to me
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #146 on: December 28, 2011, 12:02:22 PM »
I actually see where you're coming from, Kev. That's why I made a distinction between girls that can and can't pull them off. Most of them do look trashy. But on the rare occasion that they work, it makes an already hot girl that much hotter.
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #147 on: December 28, 2011, 12:03:26 PM »
-Being loud for the sake of attention at bars (like when a whole bunch of girls who haven't seen each other in, get this,......a whole two weeks, start screaming like retarded banshees when they first see each other and then either think "fuck everyone else for staring at us with dirty looks" or worse yet, are stupid enough to think the attention is positive rather than dirty looks.)

lol....  reminded me of this episode of HIMYM

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #148 on: December 28, 2011, 12:04:18 PM »
it shows the propensity to make bad choices

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #149 on: December 28, 2011, 12:06:13 PM »
it shows the propensity to make bad choices

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These same girls probably read books and do math.
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #150 on: December 28, 2011, 12:07:54 PM »
it shows the propensity to make bad choices

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it gives that connotation for sure.. a girl with massive sleeved tattoos to me is showing that she can not project into the future that it may be an unwise decision.. notice most girls who do that are quite young and not in their 30s 40s..etc..
thats just my "VIEW" LOL..
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #151 on: December 28, 2011, 12:08:40 PM »
I know this will going against the grain around here, but I find most tattoos to be total turnoffs.  Something small in an easily coverable spot is usually okay by me, but almost any tattoo on a woman that takes work to cover it up with clothing almost always looks trashy to me.

I agree with this sentiment.  I dislike tattoos on girls.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #152 on: December 28, 2011, 12:09:11 PM »
it shows the propensity to make bad choices

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These same girls probably read books and do math.

LOL LOL LOL.. well played Gad... well played.. but Id bet most of them are the ones who watch TV..LOL
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #153 on: December 28, 2011, 12:09:26 PM »
I actually see where you're coming from, Kev. That's why I made a distinction between girls that can and can't pull them off. Most of them do look trashy. But on the rare occasion that they work, it makes an already hot girl that much hotter.

Whatever turns you on. ;)  But I will say that crazy girls with outrageous tats can be awfully wild in the sack.  I'll give them that. :hat

Also, another total turnoff: a girl who smokes.  Seriously. 

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #154 on: December 28, 2011, 12:10:02 PM »
it shows the propensity to make bad choices

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it gives that connotation for sure.. a girl with massive sleeved tattoos to me is showing that she can not project into the future that it may be an unwise decision.. notice most girls who do that are quite young and not in their 30s 40s..etc..
thats just my "VIEW" LOL..

So the opposite view might be that girls with tattoos are adventurous and live life to the fullest.  :xbones

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #155 on: December 28, 2011, 12:12:23 PM »
Really the entire idea that you can judge someone's decision making process based off of the fact that they have a tattoo is absurd.
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #156 on: December 28, 2011, 12:13:40 PM »
Really the entire idea that you can judge someone's decision making process based off of the fact that they have a tattoo is absurd.

I said it gives the "connotation"... id never judge ones heart be anything that superficial.. but society does judge..
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #157 on: December 28, 2011, 12:14:50 PM »
Really the entire idea that you can judge someone's decision making process based off of the fact that they have a tattoo is absurd.

I don't think I did that, but I'll leave it at this regarding tattoos:

I think they look unattractive, unnatural and gross.  It's like a girl who plasters on too much makeup.  It just looks unnatural.  Gimme a natural beauty any day of the week. :coolio

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #158 on: December 28, 2011, 12:15:46 PM »
Haha Kev, Sigz wasn't directing that at you.
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #159 on: December 28, 2011, 12:16:52 PM »
I know, but I was clarifying for shits and grins. :biggrin:

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #160 on: December 28, 2011, 12:20:22 PM »
-Any over-usage of cosmetics, tanning (real or fake but a healthy looking natural tan can be downright awesome), other artifical means of beauty "enhancement."

-Being loud for the sake of attention at bars (like when a whole bunch of girls who haven't seen each other in, get this,......a whole two weeks, start screaming like retarded banshees when they first see each other and then either think "fuck everyone else for staring at us with dirty looks" or worse yet, are stupid enough to think the attention is positive rather than dirty looks.)

-Girls who expect to be treated like princesses and fail to realize the extremely wide gap between being truly valued and treated well versus being spoiled far beyond the extent of any sane and healthy relationship dynamic. Most of these types that I've seen also think they have no obligation to be awesome on their end of it either and think "just being me" should be enough for their man. Good luck once your looks go south ya uppity c***.

-Girls who don't like/aren't willing to give a chance to exotic cuisines. I doubt I'll be happy with any girl that won't go out for Thai, Greek, sushi, or Indian food with me. They don't have to like it all but at least some. I ain't eating chicken parmigiana at every anniversary dinner for the next 30 years.

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So the opposite view might be that girls with tattoos are adventurous and live life to the fullest.  :xbones

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #161 on: December 28, 2011, 12:21:06 PM »
Really the entire idea that you can judge someone's decision making process based off of the fact that they have a tattoo is absurd.

I don't think I did that, but I'll leave it at this regarding tattoos:

I think they look unattractive, unnatural and gross.  It's like a girl who plasters on too much makeup.  It just looks unnatural.  Gimme a natural beauty any day of the week. :coolio

You sir, have it down pat.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #162 on: December 28, 2011, 01:10:02 PM »
I don't really see the comparison with tattoos and makeup when it comes to "natural beauty" tbh. True they are not natural but unless people are covered in them or have them on their faces I don't really see them getting in the way of someone's natural beauty.
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #163 on: December 28, 2011, 01:13:40 PM »
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #164 on: December 28, 2011, 02:39:51 PM »
I don't like tattoos at all, on guys or girls. I don't think guys should get them, nor do I think girls should. It has nothing to do with sex, though. A tattoo or two would not deter me from sleeping with someone.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #165 on: December 28, 2011, 02:46:31 PM »
I don't mind tattoos.

Definitely agree with everyone saying that smoking is a big turn off.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #166 on: December 28, 2011, 02:57:58 PM »
Really the entire idea that you can judge someone's decision making process based off of the fact that they have a tattoo is absurd.

I don't think it's absurd, just unreliable.  I think there are plenty of girls with tattoos whose decisions to get them were poorly made.  But there are some who did not make this decision on a whim and who will still be happy with their tattoos when they are old and saggy.  The problem is that it's not easy to tell which kind of girl it is just by looking at them.  If it's a tattoo of Courage the Cowardly Dog or her grandfather's initials and the date of his death, it seems pretty straightforward to me, but there's a lot of space in between those two extremes. 

A tattoo can tell you a lot about a woman's decision-making ability, but it can be very difficult to analyze that information accurately.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #167 on: December 28, 2011, 03:03:27 PM »
A tattoo can tell you a lot about a woman's decision-making ability, but it can be very difficult to analyze that information accurately.

Eh, I really don't see how a tattoo can tell you anything a person without knowing more about the person. Like even if it's Courage the Cowardly dog, you have no idea whether it was a drunken bet or something they spent two years thinking about before getting.
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #168 on: December 28, 2011, 03:07:05 PM »
A Courage The Cowardly Dog tattoo would be a big turn on for me.

Particularly if she spoke like Eustace.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #169 on: December 28, 2011, 03:08:34 PM »
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #170 on: December 28, 2011, 03:11:57 PM »
A tattoo can tell you a lot about a woman's decision-making ability, but it can be very difficult to analyze that information accurately.

Eh, I really don't see how a tattoo can tell you anything a person without knowing more about the person. Like even if it's Courage the Cowardly dog, you have no idea whether it was a drunken bet or something they spent two years thinking about before getting.

I dunno.  If someone spent two years thinking about it before deciding to get a tattoo of Courage, I think the number of acceptable reasons for going through with it would be very low.  :lol

I see what you're saying though.  And I kind of agree.  Maybe what I should have said is that tattoos are more of a symptom of decision-making ability than a way to understand it.  I mean, if someone has a temperature, they could have a zillion different illnesses, some of them life-threatening and some of them totally normal.  So if someone has a tattoo, there could be a zillion different reasons, some of them reasonable and some (or most, in my opinion) of them idiotic.  But you can't figure out the disease by knowing one symptom.  So unless it's something really obvious (like a Courage the Cowardly Dog tattoo or insert some medical analogy here because I am not a doctor), you can't rely on the information or assumptions you're making.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #171 on: December 28, 2011, 03:41:17 PM »

-Girls who don't like/aren't willing to give a chance to exotic cuisines. I doubt I'll be happy with any girl that won't go out for Thai, Greek, sushi, or Indian food with me. They don't have to like it all but at least some. I ain't eating chicken parmigiana at every anniversary dinner for the next 30 years.

I don't mind a girl being a touch picky, but she HAS to be into French, and being into Greek is a definite bonus.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #172 on: December 28, 2011, 03:41:57 PM »
it shows the propensity to make bad choices
Ugh, bad choices my arse. Unless I'm serious about a girl I don't give a damn about what she wants to do in 2 years, all I care about is what she wants to do for the next 2 hours :eyebrows:

As for what doesn't turn me on, to be honest not a lot. I blame years of searching the internet for ever more depraved porn.

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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #173 on: December 28, 2011, 03:48:20 PM »
it shows the propensity to make bad choices
Ugh, bad choices my arse. Unless I'm serious about a girl I don't give a damn about what she wants to do in 2 years, all I care about is what she wants to do for the next 2 hours :eyebrows:

As for what doesn't turn me on, to be honest not a lot. I blame years of searching the internet for ever more depraved porn.

Also Woflking, I feel like we would be friends.

I hear ya pal.  :tup  I would have to blame years of porn too, some days I just can't get enough.  :lol
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Re: What doesn't turn you on and why?
« Reply #174 on: December 28, 2011, 03:48:34 PM »

-Girls who don't like/aren't willing to give a chance to exotic cuisines. I doubt I'll be happy with any girl that won't go out for Thai, Greek, sushi, or Indian food with me. They don't have to like it all but at least some. I ain't eating chicken parmigiana at every anniversary dinner for the next 30 years.

I don't mind a girl being a touch picky, but she HAS to be into French, and being into Greek is a definite bonus.

I've never had French stuff other than desserts :(
Not because I'm not interested (I will try just about anything.. probably aside from animal testicles [human are another story]), just have never had the opportunity.


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