OK, so I live in an apartment kind of thing at school. Basically, we all share a common kitchen, bathrooms, and a small little living room area thing. Within our apartment type thing, there are 3 floors, 6 people on the first floor, 3 on the second, and me and my friend on the top floor. The two guys in the double on the second floor are kind of assholes. I haven't really talked to them much at all, but from the way they carry themselves and conversations I have overheard (they are loud), they just seem like the kind of person I would NOT get along with.
Anyways, they are big party people so they throw parties here on the weekends all the time. I don't really party all that much, but whatever, I don't care. However, they, or their friends, have been damaging our apartment really bad. A couple weeks ago they punched a huge hole in the wall. Last night I heard them fucking around again and woke up this morning to find two HUGE dents in the wall. And that's fucked up. The way the school handles these things is any damages to the living areas are charged to EVERYONE in this building. And I don't wanna have to pay hundreds of dollars to cover some damage a fucking stupid drunk college douchebag is causing. What do I do?
Obviously, one of the options is confront them. I am not on friendly terms with these people, however. We all usually pass each other without saying a word to each other. I know that if I do confront them, shit will get heated. And I tend to be a very non-confrontational person, but if I'm pushed, I WILL bite back. And it's only October, and I'm stuck here until May. I don't want to make things harder on myself by making enemies so soon into the school year. But I'm not gonna deal with this shit all year.
The other option I was thinking was going to residence life and addressing them about the issue. I'm not sure how to do this either, and honestly that could turn out completely futile. However, I could probably remain anonymous through this, which would save me a lot of discomfort that I feel I shouldn't even have to deal with in the first place.
So yeah, some advice would be great. Sadly, I don't think I can get my money back. I'm going to try and move out at the end of the semester if possible, but I'm pretty sure I won't be refunded, so that won't work out. Any ideas/suggestions?