I easily have 5-10 times the desire as my wife.
as far as general public, a huge (multi-million people) survey was conducted of men/women's needs and they found that man's #1 need in almost every response was sexual.
woman's #1 need was affection. sexual fulfillment was not even on her list (at least in top 5)
the adage, "men use love to get sex and women use sex to give love" has a lot of truth to it.
in our sex-crazed society, and in Hollywood's portrayal of every other woman as a nympho (not to mention the affect of porn on society) tends to blur the reality.