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So...what if He/she is post op, and likes guys?  Are they Gay?
If they are post-op, they're a woman.

That would be my thought too Hef, but I'm sure some would say different.


Just people who are in no position to.

Well sometimes, but depending on the reassignment procedures they've had and things like hormone production etc., they may or may not technically be a woman.  Unless you're one of those who think that male and female are simply "identities" and not biological phenomena.

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Even with hormones, and surgeries, when it comes down to chromosones he/she is still male.  Now, that's the scientific.  Like others mention the question of "Identity" is completely different.  To me, if someone thinks of themselves 100% as a woman...then for all intents and purposes "Identity" wise...they are.

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Even with hormones, and surgeries, when it comes down to chromosones he/she is still male.  Now, that's the scientific.  Like others mention the question of "Identity" is completely different.  To me, if someone thinks of themselves 100% as a woman...then for all intents and purposes "Identity" wise...they are.

So you would have sex with a post-op transgender woman?

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Even with hormones, and surgeries, when it comes down to chromosones he/she is still male.  Now, that's the scientific.  Like others mention the question of "Identity" is completely different.  To me, if someone thinks of themselves 100% as a woman...then for all intents and purposes "Identity" wise...they are.

So you would have sex with a post-op transgender woman?

It's not on my bucket list..... :biggrin:

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Even with hormones, and surgeries, when it comes down to chromosones he/she is still male.  Now, that's the scientific.  Like others mention the question of "Identity" is completely different.  To me, if someone thinks of themselves 100% as a woman...then for all intents and purposes "Identity" wise...they are.

So you would have sex with a post-op transgender woman?


Totally depends. She would have to be damn sexy.


But seriously, why should it matter? I mean if you're not attracted to someone, you're not attracted to someone, but if you are then why let principle stop you?
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If the OP had turned out to be legit, I would have responded with: "Sexuality is fluid. If it feels good, do it. Screw what other people think."

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Amen.

Even with hormones, and surgeries, when it comes down to chromosones he/she is still male.  Now, that's the scientific.  Like others mention the question of "Identity" is completely different.  To me, if someone thinks of themselves 100% as a woman...then for all intents and purposes "Identity" wise...they are.

 :tup

Oh Jackie, always jumping to the most homoerotic possibility.

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Well I can't wait to watch the Crying Game this afternoon.

 :lol  Serious...first time I saw that flick I had no clue what was happening till the...umm... unwrapping...

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I knew what was coming and was still blown away.
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I actually totally believed it until I read later posts. :lol Well played.

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Even with hormones, and surgeries, when it comes down to chromosones he/she is still male.  Now, that's the scientific.  Like others mention the question of "Identity" is completely different.  To me, if someone thinks of themselves 100% as a woman...then for all intents and purposes "Identity" wise...they are.
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Is anyone else really curious to know what happened to this actual guy?

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Is anyone else really curious to know what happened to this actual guy?

It was fake?
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This didn't happen to Emindead but it was someone else on the vast wonders of the interwebs.

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This didn't happen to Emindead but it was someone else on the vast wonders of the interwebs.

Someone typed it so it obviously happened.  That's how the internet works. 

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I found it on a blog and it was posted 7 months ago and nothing about it since  :P

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I AM A GUY
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by the 5th paragraph, it was clear it was completely fake. i can't believe people fell for this.. pretty funny though

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what I miss? emindead likes bones now?

I wouldn't want somebody with 18 kids to mow my damn lawn, based on a longstanding bias I have against crazy fucks.

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Even with hormones, and surgeries, when it comes down to chromosones he/she is still male.  Now, that's the scientific.  Like others mention the question of "Identity" is completely different.  To me, if someone thinks of themselves 100% as a woman...then for all intents and purposes "Identity" wise...they are.

So you would have sex with a post-op transgender woman?


Totally depends. She would have to be damn sexy.


But seriously, why should it matter? I mean if you're not attracted to someone, you're not attracted to someone, but if you are then why let principle stop you?

I dunno. Hmm...

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what I miss? emindead likes bones now?

Damn right I do.

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Honestly I was waiting for the post to end with "I got in one little fight and my moms got scared and said "ya movin witcha auntsie and uncle in Belair' ."


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If the OP had turned out to be legit, I would have responded with: "Sexuality is fluid. If it feels good, do it. Screw what other people think."

Same here.

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whats wrong
with being gay?!

im offended by this thread
i have gay friends
and even friends who are
transexuals.
and the fact that you guys
are all up and arms
and flipping out about a
gay pefson is completely fucked up.

www.bedeceived.com

ZOMG WHAT'S AT BEDECEIVED.COM?

I DUNNO!  CLICK THE DARNED LINK TO FIND OUT!

Offline robwebster

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whats wrong
with being gay?!

im offended by this thread
i have gay friends
and even friends who are
transexuals.
and the fact that you guys
are all up and arms
and flipping out about a
gay pefson is completely fucked up.


I feel like this used to be a poem before you typed it.

I've not seen that many people flipping out, tbh. Couple of less elucidated responses, but it's mostly been pretty cool.

Although I may have just mentally papered over the more reprehensible ones. I dunno!

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no.

i cant believre
the people in
this thread
www.bedeceived.com

ZOMG WHAT'S AT BEDECEIVED.COM?

I DUNNO!  CLICK THE DARNED LINK TO FIND OUT!

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no.

i cant believre
the people in
this thread


What the hell is wrong with you as of late?
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Maybe he's imitating how he used to be gay and how he used to make all his posts look like poems.

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bedecieved, Adami.  beverydecieved.

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