I used to really like this band, gone off them a lot in recent years though. Don't worry about being the only girl, if anything there will probably be more girls than guys at an average CoF gig, something about their imagery and especially their lyrics seem to really appeal to the average femle goth. And don't be scared of them! Their singer Dani is always cracking jokes on stage and generally taking the piss, their music is actually very light-hearted and they definitely don't take themselves too seriously. And they put on a very good, theatrical show. You'l have a great time.